Is it normal to have a crush on a girl, even though i already have a boyfriend?

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Before I fell in love with my current boyfriend, I had a crush on a girl but she turned out to be straight. I am really good friends with her, sometimes she puts herself down but I tell her how beautiful and talented she is. Even though me and my boyfriend have strong and sometimes sexual feelings for each other, I still think of her almost as much as him. Neither the friend nor boyfriend know about this, and I'm to afraid to tell them. Is This Normal?
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  • JD777
    5 years ago

    Being in a relationship with one person and secretly attracted to another person is not unusual. It’s how one handles this that separates decent people from others.

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    • ApplePine
      5 years ago

      well said man.

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  • Ellenna
    5 years ago

    You definitely seem to me to be bisexual, which is totally normal and common, although it can get messy in relationships depending on the other people involved.

    I don't see any point in telling the other girl if she's definitely straight and not knowing your boyfriend I don't know if it would be a good idea to tell him about it. .

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    • ApplePine
      5 years ago

      lol, I already know i'm bi, and I know she's straight, I forgot to mention, I asked her out not knowing what she was. She told me she was straight but I still like her. At the same time though, I can barely keep my hands off my boyfriend, ditto for him.

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      • Ellenna
        5 years ago

        Being bi is a fairly important piece of information and I think you should share it with your boyfriend. Have a think about how you would feel if he were bi and didn't tell you? Wouldn't you want to know?

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    If she's straight don't tell her about all of this mess.

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