Is it normal to hate my father?

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i had been suffering from social phobia since around 13 years old.
i once went to a psychiatric counselling for asthma when i was 18. my father was with me. i told the counsellor about my social problem (though i actually did not go there for social phobia counselling.) my father frowned and said that i roamed too much and ignored my problem. he did not know how much trouble i had with people. he also might have thought that it would spoil my studies as i was good at it.
i never got over the phobia. now i am 26
and still have the problem. i went into drugs and wasted my life. never learned life skills, social skills, missed college, did not make friends, got into destructive behaviour, etc as i was obsessed with the phobia. i know i am responsible for myself but i still blame and hate my father no matter how hard i try not to.
iin?

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Based on 31 votes (17 yes)
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  • sissycakes
    11 years ago

    why would you go to psychiatric counseling for asthma?

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  • MILFman
    12 years ago

    If you rarely saw him, he beat you mad like child abuse mad, embarassed you, mocked you in front of the camera on his last video, openly criticized and patronized you when you tried to show some achievement... well the definitely yes.

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  • sunoy14
    12 years ago

    you are just a big strong elephantasis.
    hee hee hee

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  • sunoy14
    12 years ago

    thank you alexander_loise_armstron or neil armstrong. i dont need to be reminded of my weakness. get your weakness done and comment.
    pLEASE.

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  • jermath35
    12 years ago

    My father held me back in life instead of helped.... I feel for u bro.. Just do what I did and move on... If ur dad is bad person ignore him and be around people that will help u be more positive...find something u really love doing and ignore ur worries and give them to god...

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Can you not seek out some help now? It is easy to blame your past or someone else for screwing up your life, but you need to start afresh and put his comments behind you. He may have spoken out of turn but he was doing the best he knew at the time ;o(

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  • flax
    12 years ago

    Why would you see a psychiatrist for a respiratory illness???

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    • zelskid
      11 years ago

      yeah?

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      • zelskid
        11 years ago

        maybe asperger's

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        • zelskid
          11 years ago

          ez to mix up cursing and wheezing

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  • Alexander_Louise_Armstrong
    12 years ago

    your as weak as piss, your just a bad person

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