First of all, calm down a bit. We guys could go on forever about girls' bad BJ skills (let alone hand jobs--usually worthless). I can't see how this is "gross" . . . just ineffective.
Why don't you just tell your partner what you want? Don't be a bitch about it--make it funny and make sure to tell him to speak up if he'd like you to do something differently. And, to make things even less stressful, try something new for both of you. Even if you're both doing it wrong, you won't know, will you? Could be anything, like a new position or something more daring.
Nobody likes to be criticized, but most people would much rather--in the long run--know that they are turning their partner on.
Plus, how old are you two? If he is like 20 years old, give him a break. I had no fucking idea what I was doing at 20.
IIN to give oral sex like this?
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First of all, calm down a bit. We guys could go on forever about girls' bad BJ skills (let alone hand jobs--usually worthless). I can't see how this is "gross" . . . just ineffective.
Why don't you just tell your partner what you want? Don't be a bitch about it--make it funny and make sure to tell him to speak up if he'd like you to do something differently. And, to make things even less stressful, try something new for both of you. Even if you're both doing it wrong, you won't know, will you? Could be anything, like a new position or something more daring.
Nobody likes to be criticized, but most people would much rather--in the long run--know that they are turning their partner on.
Plus, how old are you two? If he is like 20 years old, give him a break. I had no fucking idea what I was doing at 20.