Is it normal to give oral sex like this?

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I went home with a guy recently, he wanted to give me oral (which I was, obviously fine with). He got down to it, licked my clit a couple times (all good) and then started dunking his tongue in and out of my pussy which I find completely cringey and gross. I stopped responding and even tried to move his head upwards to my clit but he wouldn't stop doing it! What the hell!

It's like, hmm I've heard women have clitorises and also prefer large penises but I'm sure my gross little tongue is going to be just as good. I find it disgusting, completely not pleasurable, really annoying actually and also the mark of a guy who watches too much porn and has no idea how to please a woman.

Men, do you do this?(STOP DOING IT!) Women, do you like this?

I'm a guy, and I do this (please comment why)	35
I'm a guy and I may do this a little, but mainly focus on the clit	70
I'm a guy and I don't do this	35
I'm a girl, and I hate this	41
I'm a girl, and I don't mind it	27
I'm a girl, and I love it (please comment why)	36

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(s)aint

9 years ago

I like to get tongue everywhere clit-vagina-anus *Shrugs* I don't see your problem?
It's nice.

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- luv2fuckwhitepussy
  
  9 years ago
  
  wow ull luv me i i lick tha pussy all over & all types of ways & i don't like 2stop
  
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- bleach_baby
  
  9 years ago
  
  There's a big difference between tongue everywhere and and tongue in just one place! I'd still prefer the tongue to remain on the external aspects of clit-vagina-anus rather than actually inside me, but if he's mixing it up, that's cool. However, if he's just using his tongue as a substitute penis, that does absolutely nothing for me as it's not strong enough to create the pressure necessary for stimulating my g-spot.
  
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  - (s)aint
    
    9 years ago
    
    Good answer and yeah of course I prefer it if the tongue moves around a bit- teasingly.
    
    For me, or I should say that my current boyfriend makes it work with his tongue in my vagina and anus. No idea how he does it but I feel it. A lot!
    
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  - luv2fuckwhitepussy
    
    9 years ago
    
    i prefer to stay on tha clit but i go to tha pussy hole every now & then
    
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bleach_baby

9 years ago

Can a girl who enjoys this comment please? Because otherwise I'm just gonna assume those votes were from men trying to justify their bad oral technique.

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- maxibearscumslut
  
  9 years ago
  
  I love it when a guy thrusts their tongue into my vagina, nibbles on my lips, ect. It's nice when they move around a bit, but for the most part I love it. I think the reason is that I like it is because I barely feel it on my clit. It is kind of uncomfortable for my clit to be played with, and since I start shaking when I'm touched there, I don't really go as insane as other women.
  
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  - luv2fuckwhitepussy
    
    9 years ago
    
    i luv 2 lick a pussy all over in & outside & bck 2tha clit
    
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- disthing
  
  9 years ago
  
  (s)aint has.
  
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- Gspyder
  
  9 years ago
  
  It seems like you're surprised at the results of your votes when basically option number 2 is do guys do this at all during oral. Which would be an obvious yes. The focus is of course on the clit, but we're gonna make our rounds too. If not itd be the same as a bj where you just bob up and down for 10 minutes.
  
  on topic: yes it is weird he thought it would be a good idea to spend any real amount of time on anything besides the clit.
  
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  - bleach_baby
    
    9 years ago
    
    What? No.
    
    The question isn't 'do guys do this at all during oral sex', obviously a guy did this to me during oral sex so I know some guys do this during oral sex. It's only an obvious yes when you phrase the question the way you did. I existed for 24 happy years before finding out that some guys do this during oral sex.
    
    Making the rounds is all well and good, this particular doorstop doesn't like to have the paper delivered in this manner. If girls don't like it, don't do it? I could make my rounds by grating my teeth up and down some poor guy's dick to relieve the 'up and down', fortunately I know other ways of doing things which aren't quite so horrible.
    
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CountessDouche

9 years ago | pl

I don't really like this either- I also don't like when guys jam their fingers inside of me- It feels like getting jabbed at with a pencil and, really, fingernails- need I say more. It's like one asshole decided that females need to be penetrated to get off and told all his friends about it. Just, no...

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- Fall_leaves
  
  9 years ago
  
  Amen, and when you moan out in pain they add another finger and jab even harder.
  
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- disthing
  
  9 years ago
  
  Every girlfriend I've ever had has wanted me to finger them, and enjoyed it.
  
  So, whilst I totally agree with the fingernail thing, not every girl feels the same way about fingers in the vagina.
  
  Tongue in the vagina on the other hand.. There isn't much point.
  
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  - luv2fuckwhitepussy
    
    9 years ago
    
    i like 2 finger tha pussy while i lick it off too
    
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    - disthing
      
      9 years ago
      
      Yeah fingering and licking at the same time usually goes down well.
      
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reddragon67

9 years ago

My girl would like that sometimes, it depends on her condition, at other times not accept it.

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- bleach_baby
  
  9 years ago
  
  That sounds more like she sometimes tolerates it than that she likes it.
  
  Genuine question: if you know she prefers other things, why do you do it? Is it something that turns you on?
  
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  - reddragon67
    
    9 years ago
    
    I mean she is ask for that by implying when she willing to do so. Only then I do.Same thing for me, when I want her give me oral sex. Do not force any of the partners, we in agreement..
    
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Ebil_Lightbulb

9 years ago

I like it every once in a while. Maybe 1% of the duration of the cunnulingus.

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gashlover

9 years ago

oral sex 101 for dummies:

Tongue -> clit finger->vagina (or anus depending on kinkiness of girl)

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DangerousPotatoGuy

9 years ago

When I go down on her it's all about the clit. This one time I almost choked on my own saliva (no, she did not queef), I coughed it off and we cracked up really hard so it didn't have to be awkward.

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lovetolickwifesass

8 years ago

want to taste her i do it to her ass to

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wifesfeet

8 years ago

i want to taste her pussy

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Soilworker2099

9 years ago

Get a porn on where the girls getting the old lick down, watch it with him and comment on how much better it is with the main stimulation on the clit area for you, just tell him " man that shit feels soooo good up top when you like there, and you know what's even better when you lick me while your fingers up there... " then he can't fail you and stick his scaly tongue inside pleasure valley

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Soilworker2099

9 years ago

Tongue on the nub and 2 in the pink 1 in the stink=glorious gasms for the old lady

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Diver2

9 years ago

I will suck you off and we will take care of this once and for all. Thank you...

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SometimesNaive

9 years ago

I like having both my clit stimulated and a nice tongue inside. I cant stand fingers at all. I'd like to note that im very picky about tongue fucking. Mouth has to have been cleaned about 30 minutes earlier, and absolutely no spicy foods eaten in the last 6 hours.
Also. The tongue isnt rough if its relaxed.

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IsItNormalBro

9 years ago

Lol my bf does it all the time and I try and move my pussy up so licks my clit but he ignores it and keeps tounge fucking me its so anoying

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capmann1880

9 years ago

First of all, calm down a bit. We guys could go on forever about girls' bad BJ skills (let alone hand jobs--usually worthless). I can't see how this is "gross" . . . just ineffective.

Why don't you just tell your partner what you want? Don't be a bitch about it--make it funny and make sure to tell him to speak up if he'd like you to do something differently. And, to make things even less stressful, try something new for both of you. Even if you're both doing it wrong, you won't know, will you? Could be anything, like a new position or something more daring.

Nobody likes to be criticized, but most people would much rather--in the long run--know that they are turning their partner on.

Plus, how old are you two? If he is like 20 years old, give him a break. I had no fucking idea what I was doing at 20.

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Ibelievethis

9 years ago

I'm one of those strange women. I love giving oral, but don't like receiving. I slept with a guy on Sat gave him oral 3 times and refused to let him go down on me. However when we did have sex. I had countless orgasms think it was because I was turned on through giving pleasure or perhaps he just knew what to do with it. X

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- luv2fuckwhitepussy
  
  9 years ago
  
  if you do me im do you & i don't like 2stop
  
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dickwashington

9 years ago

i dont know every girl is diffrent as far as what they like i do my best work down there when she is willing to communicate what she likes so i can make it as good for her as it possibly can be but yeah i pretty much focus right on the clit

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EccentricWeird

9 years ago

I'm an X and I Y it!

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green_boogers

9 years ago

This video shows what I do. It's a good way to get squirting orgasms.

http://www.redtube.com/336612

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peaceandlovebro

9 years ago

Lol you're a sex newbie. This is a completely normal thing to do.

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- bleach_baby
  
  9 years ago
  
  ...No, you're a sex-newbie, because you're not pleasuring your woman. It's normal the same way teeth during blow-jobs are normal - ie, common yet terrible.
  
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  - peaceandlovebro
    
    9 years ago
    
    After trying to see if she likes it, my woman asks for that and she gets turned on. So did my ex before her.
    
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  - Ebil_Lightbulb
    
    9 years ago
    
    Some men do like a little bit of teeth just as some women like a little bit of tongue. Everything in moderation.
    
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    - bleach_baby
      
      9 years ago
      
      Sure. I mean I agree with GinaHead when she said it's like a wet sponge but I would never presume to speak for all women - however the guy I talked about in the OP was all about tongue-fucking and I seriously refuse to believe any woman finds that pleasurable.
      
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      - (s)aint
        
        9 years ago
        
        I do? Why the fuck wouldn't it feel nice?
        
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        bleach_baby
        
        9 years ago
        
        Cuz it's a small, rough, slimy item going in and out of your pussy. It's not strong enough to stimulate your g-spot and it doesn't stimulate anything else. It's boring and annoying. I'm glad you enjoy it, but from the poll you're in the minority - how would you compare it to the classic tongue on clit, finger in pussy combo gashlover suggested?
        
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      - donotmockme
        
        9 years ago
        
        I love when my boyfriend does this as it turns both of us on more.
        
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      - peaceandlovebro
        
        9 years ago
        
        My girl loves it.
        
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  - donotmockme
    
    9 years ago
    
    Weird because all my ex's did this to me and my current boyfriend does this and it really gets things started and turns me on an insane amount.
    
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xtreemgamer129

9 years ago

Ok here's what you tell him to do. First he licks all over the outside of your pussy, then circles around your clit, sucks on your clit, and then fingers you the rest of the way to near-orgasm. When you're just about to climax, he should go back to oral and suck your clit some more until you cum on his face.

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