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I am a 20 year old man and I get really turned on when women are angry and bitchy towards me. Does anyone else feel like this?
Or maybe because sickenling sweet girls seem kind of phoney, and it's hard to get to know them.
Yeah I like it but because I like the idea of a woman being turned off by me and get angry at me for perving on them, that kind of turns me on. I think it stems from the fact no women fancies me so my bodys adapted to it and find that to be sexual pleasure as I don't get any normal pleasure :(
Yeah it's normal. Ever heard of couples getting into fights then they end up having sex? Happens to me and my partner.
there are lot of people who are aroused by having some one direct anger towards them. its along the lines of discipline, humiliation, pain. Not sure if it's "normal" but it's common.
yes its normal.. my bf is twenty n when he gets angry or fired up its a total turn on!! i just wanna jump him ! lol
Totally normal. My boyfriend gets super turned when I'm bitching at him and he thinks it is sexy.
@BabyGirl92
yes. I think a dominant woman relaxes me. I don't feel like I have to be in control.
And all the cards are out on the table. There is nothing hidden behind nice behavior. No polite exchanges.
It could very well be something relates to ones relationship with his mother. But probably the only real way to know would more than likely require several therapy sessions, to delve into ones psyche
So. You think it has something to do with an inability to connect with your mother.
Yes. Some mothers keep thier kids at a distance with their busy, constant need to do things life. if mother and son never connected on any "real" level, would this cause the man's attraction to bitchy, angry women?
Not an easy answer. The psychology regarding this practice known as sadomasochism can be very deep. It can stem from things in your childhood. For example, my friend grew up never knowing his mother. She abandoned his family when he was young. As an adult, he's kind of dabbled in s&m. More than likely, the two issues are related...
What makes a person aroused over this humiliation and pain? What caused this?
It's a desire for a Dominant woman.
You might find you like being shouted at in the mall and being made to carry bags of her shopping. You might find that her slapping your face is arousing too.
You might like to find a Domme who will go along the lines of humiliation and degredation.