Is it normal to get turned on when a girl makes me feel masculine

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To avoid any confusion, I am a guy. When I was with my ex girlfriend, she did things that drove me crazy, like putting her hands behind my ears, gently stroking my arms, running her fingers through my hair, and putting a hand on my chest when we were sleeping together. Just little things like that made me feel so masculine even though I never feel manly in real life. The thought that she was looking at me with her deep soulful eyes and truly cared about me from the bottom of her heart really stimulated my protective instinct and made me feel like I needed to be there for her no matter what. And that mutual love, respect, and compassion were so wonderful and intensified our emotional connection which easily manifested itself in more meaningful physical intimacy.

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  • MaidHoney
    9 years ago | pl

    There does not appear to be a question here, just a nostalgic spiel over an ex.

    ...what's your question...

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    • Myidt10
      9 years ago | pl

      He asked "Is it normal to get turned on when a girl makes me feel masculine?"

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  • Blue_Velvet
    9 years ago | pl

    Yeh, i used to do that with my previous boyfriends even though i'm 5'9. I guess they liked it.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago | pl

      Were they taller than you?

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      • Blue_Velvet
        9 years ago | pl

        Yes most of them was.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          9 years ago | pl

          I don't see why height is a big deal. Like skin color, it's just a physical characteristic that we can't control due to the hereditary nature of it.

          I've been attracted to girls who were around 5 feet tall to almost 6 feet tall. I admit that I am a "shorter" guy at 5'8 (which has something to do with not feeling manly enough sometimes) but I like to think that I am confident.

          Honestly I do think height is a bigger issue for girls than it is for guys in terms of who they find attractive.

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          • ㅤㅤㅤ
            9 years ago | pl

            Well if it makes you feel any better, when my mother first saw my dad she said, "Ewww, he's short!" - but, they've been married for over a decade so I gues even in the end, it didn't really matter :)

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  • Unimportant
    9 years ago | pl

    Sounds dangerously normal.

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  • Myidt10
    9 years ago | pl

    I do think it's very normal and if I were a guy that would get me so turned on. I mean, that got me turned on with ex girlfriends. (I'm bi.) Extremely sexy, and extremely normal.

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  • ㅤㅤㅤ
    9 years ago | pl

    This post is so manly.

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