I have a similar fantasy. I told my boyfriend about it and he didn't believe me at first. Then he looked through my stories here and finally believed me and freaked out a little. I've been trying to figure out the cause ever since. The idea of it was introduced by a guy friend many years ago because he was self-conscious. I don't think I'm very self-conscious, but I do have issues letting go and not thinking during sex. Pretending I'm an outsider helps with that.
Another theory I have is that I miss being "miss new booty" and this is just a way to evoke feelings of excitement from the beginning of our relationship. I am also in a long term relationship and this fantasy developed after about 3 years of being stuck on one guy.
I also like StarTeddy's theory. That's a good one.
IIN to get turned on thinking about my boyfriend physically cheating?
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I have a similar fantasy. I told my boyfriend about it and he didn't believe me at first. Then he looked through my stories here and finally believed me and freaked out a little. I've been trying to figure out the cause ever since. The idea of it was introduced by a guy friend many years ago because he was self-conscious. I don't think I'm very self-conscious, but I do have issues letting go and not thinking during sex. Pretending I'm an outsider helps with that.
Another theory I have is that I miss being "miss new booty" and this is just a way to evoke feelings of excitement from the beginning of our relationship. I am also in a long term relationship and this fantasy developed after about 3 years of being stuck on one guy.
I also like StarTeddy's theory. That's a good one.