Is it normal to get angry when gf says "im too tired"

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Now, let me preface by saying the only reason I expect it is because I put out even if I'm sick or don't feel like it. I didn't feel like having sex last week so I spent an hour And a half eating her pussy. I want her to be satisfied even if I don't really feel like it. But correct me if I'm wrong, but if you expect to be in a monogamous relationship, you meet your sigoths needs else they have them met elsewhere? And yeah I know women have a harder time seperating emotions from physical pleasure so when she's pissed off I don't even bother. And Im not talking no foreplay, take ur clothes off and bend over. She shot me down last night when I tried to kiss her neck. The "don't touch me" deal. Am I being insensitive? I feel like we both kind of are lol

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  • MissesAnonymous23
    9 years ago

    If you put out when you don't feel like it, that's on you. You should never expect someone to do anything for you, especially sexual favors from your lady.

    On the flip side, she should stop being a prude and tell you why she's never in the mood. Try asking her what you can do to seduce her, what she likes in bed, and be patient with her. If she's saying no just to play hard to get, try explaining your frustration, and if she doesn't get it, you should probably break it off. I wouldn't want to deal with that the rest of my life...

    And good lord, 1.5 hours? EXCESSIVE!

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    Perhaps things are getting a bit boring and routine in the bedroom? Spice things up with a bit of romance; bring home flowers, take her out for, or cook her a romantic candle lit meal.
    Women, unlike men, need more than "an hour And a half eating her pussy". You need to understand your woman and how she thinks about sex, not bitch and moan because she doesn't want to be a receptacle for your sperm every time you get horny.

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  • SanDubious
    9 years ago

    I think you should stop putting out for her and try to avoid putting her on a pedestal - it will go one of two ways: 1, she'll get fed up with you and hate you and that my friend will be an inevitability which will happen regardless. Or 2, she'll realise you're no longer taking her shit and shell buck up and treat you how you treat her.

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  • davesumba
    9 years ago

    women are selfish bitches, completely normal, deal with it.

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  • associate
    9 years ago

    It might suck, but the fact is, it's her choice... it's not fair to get angry about it, especially as she might end up feeling pressured or coerced into sex, which is basically assault / rape. It's not great that you've felt like you have to do stuff when you're not in the mood, either. Just take it easy, masturbate more, and do some romantic stuff together. If it really seems you aren't compatible, you'll probably be able to find someone else :)

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  • Holzman_67
    9 years ago

    I think you guys need to talk there's obviously something bothering her.

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  • HATIMTAI
    9 years ago

    It can take some time so be patient.

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  • Nokiot9
    9 years ago

    And am I making this too black and white?

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  • Shroot
    9 years ago

    All I'm saying is....

    You're stronger than her

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