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She didn't want a ride home from me after a dinner because of an argument. It was a bad neighborhood, I was worried she would get mugged or worse so I followed her with my car to the bus stop like six blocks away, then followed the bus, then followed her as she walked home, with my headlights off so I wouldn't scare her. IIN?
That's called stalking and honestly no offence but you thinking that way makes you the danger to her. What was the argument over?
you can just call her cellphone and tell her....and say you just care...you dont have to turn lights off and all that creepy stuff? she might turn into a paranoid and thought you are a bad person and stab you with a knife....
It's normal to want to protect your gf, but kinda creepy that you followed her...
I say you're a gentleman, my hat's off to you. Maybe to her it would seem different, but you have the right intentions. You obviously care more than anything. Kudos and the best of luck!
Caring for your girlfriend's safety is not bad, but don't follow her. She may feel that you are infantilizing her, which will only harm your relationship. She can take care of herself, don't worry so much.