Is it normal to find clothes so unneccercarily gendered in this day and age?

And a very valid opinion that is xD
That does seem to be a pretty common thing (womens clothes often lacking pockets, Or 'having pockets' but they are either A. Fake or B. Really tiny)

On that topic i probably as far as sexuality goes fall more along the lines of grey-asexual (being attracted to somebody sexually is super rare for me rather than liking somebody aesthetics-wise) so that was probably just a pretty good guess on your part whether it was intended as such or not xD (in this case it was probably an example throwaway line)

I tend to go with how i feel like dressing that particular day. Which often leads to people nit picking me and i have been told before to make up my mind in regards to whether i like more feminine or more 'masculine' clothes when it's like 'can't i like both?'

How do you look asexual. What does that even mean?

What is considered appropriate though is in itself a social construct.

But eh you have a point regardless.

The funny part is i dont even HAVE to dress outrageously for people to get bitter over it xD
I just wear pretty normal-ish modest things (even if it is occasionally albeit outdated or old fashioned)

Eh no not really i get it from quite a few people.

And as far as the body types thing goes they are typically tailored more towards 'that gender' but i'm -believe it or not- a weird as fuck body type that's not more masculine leaning but more feminine leaning either but certainly not andrgynous but rather a mix of the two thrown in a blender thrown on a solid -and sadly not very wiry- frame. (Sure they tend to cater to 'more common' types which is not me -It sounds really stupid but- some combinations make finding clothes that fit hell without much difficulty literally all my problems would be solved if i was more lithe of frame and andrgynous believe me as what woukd fit in the shoulders is too short, ect. I 'cant afford to be picky' but i'm picky anyway because i'd rather not waste money on clothes i'd rather give away than look at any longer)

So it's actually pretty hard to find stuff that fits anyways unless it's custom made sooo i tend to wear whatever fits if i like it. But alas despite not liking to show too much skin i also don't like to wear stuff that's too close fitting/clingy so my choices are skewed further as my skeletal frame isnt slender to begin with...So i -as misguided as you like to think i am (which i am holding no offense to)- tend to make do with what i like that fits (and it personally makes me happier than only wearing 'what i should be' wearing) which always drives my mother up the wall (and always has) but my mother isnt the only culprit here chewing me out for it xD
...Not that her opinion ever mattered to me anyways because she never cared about anything regarding me unless it -in her opinion- reflects badly on her.