Is it normal to find any girl attractive after she is nice to you?

I'm a male virgin and any time that a girl or woman is nice to me, even if she is not attractive, I will tend to develop a slight crush on her. If she is cute and she is nice to me, she will automatically become ten times more attractive to me. Is this behavior normal?

Is It Normal?
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  • It just means you are an emotionally needy person. Plenty of those out there. But all things aside shows the power of being nice to one another and the impression that is felt from it.

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  • I feel that way about guys. I don´t really notice if people are únattractive´ I guess ilike a lot of unattractive guys because as long as they are nice & cute personality then however they look like is automatically good to me!!!

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  • Yeah, dogs are the same way. If you are nice to them, they like you.

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  • it's normal to like someone simply because they are nice you, but not to be sexually attracted to them. Occasionally, I will begin to crush on someone because they are nice to me or I find out that they like me, but they're usually my type and I just hadn't thought of them in that way before.

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  • No. You sound like a complete imbecile.

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  • That's the result of being super desperate and willing to settle for anything you think you have even an outside shot at.

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  • Its not normal if you are crushing on unattractive girls just because they are nice to you

    Let me rephrase that.

    Its not normal if you are crushing on unattractive girls. Period.

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