Is it normal to feel uncomfortable when a guy keeps texting me each day?

Recently.. a guy I met has been giving me anxiety. It could be me overreacting but I would appreciate your thoughts. about a bit ago I met a guy during an interview. We had one hobby in common which what started the conversation. Afterwards we talked outside and exchanged phone numbers.I was caught off guard when he texted me seconds later after my mom had picked me up. But I didn't think of it much at that time.Now..It's been about 3 weeks and the guy has texted me each single day. At first it was alright, but it's gotten to the point I have to hint him that I'm not always one the phone. He even wanted to meet up or hang out in the weekend but I didn't feel comfortable with that. Specially since we just met days ago. (My parents weren't okay with it either) During the first few texts I did mention, just in case I didn't reply, it would be for "ect" reason. I thought that would clarify..but apparently not. Since he keeps texting "Are you there?" or "am I boring you?" .

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  • CapriSun

    I've met ALOT of guys like that. It's not uncommon at all for a guy to text you constantly because they're desperate. Whenever it happens to me I just block them and never text back. If it's somebody who you have to see or be around occasionally I'd just tell them straight forward that you're really not interested. It's better to be honest than suffer

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  • KiwiWisdom

    You just need to be straight to the point. It's tough to make a friend if your prospective friend isn't on the same page. Don't hint, be honest and just say what's honestly bothering you.Even if he's not creepy, you're getting anxious and you've got to draw a line.

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  • Morrow

    This is just how guys work. We have very small checklists; cute, similar interests, hit it off, GOOD. That's really all he needs to know, so now he's trying to make something happen. Trying a little too hard I see.

    I understand he's a complete stranger, and yeah that would be uncomfortable. But unless you're completely disinterested in him, why not give him a chance?

    He's not creepy is he?

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  • rayb12

    Too bad you're married is he Indian?

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  • drabbles123

    I do't think he's creepy, but I'm also not looking to be in a relationship. I thought it would be nice to make a new friend, and I could have probably given the wrong signals. All I can be sure of is being to anxious about the situation.

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    • Kevinevan

      I wouldn't nescessarily say he wants a relationship. Many people text without thinking too much about it. Jokingly ask him why tf he's always texting.

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      • drabbles123

        I'll try and see what happens thank you for the advice!

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