Is it normal to feel this way

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I always feel that every person in my life thinks that I am just some weirdo and that they don't care for me as much as I care for them. I always feel that every relationship I have with other people is not real and it would come to an end eventually. I think that I am not loved and maybe I am wrong about it but I still feel this way. I think I've always been a second choice for my friends, they need me when they're sad and I'm always ready to be there for them but when I need them they don't seem to notice that I want them to be with me. And I don't want to force any kind of feelings or expectations on them but I feel bad about it. And its just that I'm a total mess and don't know how to deal with this shit.

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Based on 6 votes (5 yes)
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  • AC_NXS
    3 years ago

    It’s not normal. Those are all symptoms of depression and anxiety. I would know as I struggle with both as well as PTSD, Bipolar among other mental health issues. Just know that most of the time, we’re just over thinking things and it’s typically not true. But I would suggest seeking out a therapist. I have two therapists, a case manager, an IHH worker as well as a psychiatrist, so there is help out there available. You don’t have to live like this, there’s help.

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  • ellnell
    3 years ago

    Yes it sounds like normal feelings for an insecure person.
    You need to work on yourself in order to feel more confident.

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  • S0UNDS_WEIRD
    3 years ago

    Sounds normal.

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  • Somenormie
    3 years ago

    You shouldn't think like that there are better ways to approach yourself.

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