Is it normal to feel this way?

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I am a 19 years old male, and I have never had a girlfriend, and I've only ever had one real friend ever. I've only ever loved one girl, but I never talked to her. I've not felt like that ever again. So my question is this, has it been too long? Am I doomed to be alone? is it possible to have been alone for so long that I don't know how or lost and/or never developed what I need to have a relationship? Should I just give up and end my life?

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  • [email protected]
    10 years ago | pl

    I'm 50-It's no big deal one way or the other.Learn to get by by yourself first.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    I'm on the same road.

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  • stonecutters93
    12 years ago | pl

    Dude you're way too young to worry about that. I'm 23 and I'm in a similar situation. You're definitely going to find another girl and she'll fall head over heels for you. Never give up hope and just live your life! I agree with pitterpatter just focus on things in your life that make you happy. Love and friendship seem to always come around when you least expect it.

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  • pitterpatter
    12 years ago | pl

    You're still pretty young. I would not advise you to end your life. I'd say focus on your degree or something, and figure out what to do in your life.

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  • Shackleford96
    12 years ago | pl

    I don't know how to answer your question, because i am in too much of a similar situation to yours, but I advise you to not give up. You can find another girl, I know I will someday.

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