Is it normal to feel the need to give things to my boyfriend constantly?

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I feel a need to give my boyfriend gifts every day I see him. If I don't have anything to give I feel sad and keep apologizing. I bring extra money to school every day when I can (my parents told me I need to stop because we as a family are running a bit low on money, but I look around the house, find coins and dollars around and sneak them in) and give him enough to buy lunch. Sometimes if I can't get enough money I skip lunch myself and give him all of my money.

He tells me I really don't need to do this but I feel I HAVE to. I used to buy him a snack every day and bring it to school for him, be it candy, energy drink, etc. I draw him pictures as often as I can to add on to the gifts I give him. In fact, I have a drawing in my bag prepared for tomorrow.

He has asked to BORROW two things from me, a PS2 controller and a flash drive. I insisted he keep both. I would feel bad taking them back.

IIN?

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Comments ( 7 )
  • evollove
    13 years ago

    IT SEEMS LIKE YOU'RE SCARED HE'LL BREAK UP W/ YOU IF YOU DONT GIVE HIM THINGS. NO, THAT ISNT NORMAL...NOT EVEN SLIGHTLY. HE MAY JUST DUMP YOU B/C YOU'RE SMOTHERING HIM AND YOU SEEM WAAAAAY TOO CLINGY. LIGHTEN UP & TAKE IT EASY ON THE "GIFT" GIVING, SANTA CLAUSE. LIKE "MOGETA" SAID, YOU'RE GONNA SCARE HIM OFF.

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  • Burrito_Dick
    13 years ago

    thats normal jk its weird and i think u do have issues.

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  • gashlover
    9 years ago

    Just let him give you his meat and that is more than enough to keep him satisfied.

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  • hemja
    12 years ago

    My love gives me coursework everyday, it makes her feel complete.

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  • Bman
    13 years ago

    It's normal you just want to make him happy.

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  • mogeta
    13 years ago

    relax man, you'll scared him away. don't get too obsessed in pleasing your bf.

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  • gako
    13 years ago

    Two things. Your being used and& you have issues. Goodbye.

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