It's the most practical answer, and the one that will make things better in the long run.
If someone is absolutely obsessed with someone, do you think they will stop just because they don't act on it for so long? It's not going to get better by waiting.
The incel answer would be to draw out your own pain and eventually get crushed when she gets a boyfriend.
Of course you can be friends with someone, then catch feelings. Sometimes those feelings are unreciprocated.
IIN to feel so hopelessly attracted to a same-sex friend?
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It's the most practical answer, and the one that will make things better in the long run.
If someone is absolutely obsessed with someone, do you think they will stop just because they don't act on it for so long? It's not going to get better by waiting.
The incel answer would be to draw out your own pain and eventually get crushed when she gets a boyfriend.
Of course you can be friends with someone, then catch feelings. Sometimes those feelings are unreciprocated.