Do yourself a favor. Distance yourself from her, because if she's not into you then all you will do is hurt yourself more.
Plenty of guys have found themselves in a situation like this
(except usually the girl is attracted to men but just not him), and the solution is always to move on.
This is the most incel-sounding answer someone could give. Yeah, a friend you have a crush on not reciprocating your feelings always sucks, but if your instinct is to turn your back on them and cut them off for that reason, then you were never friends with them in the first place. Friends don't see their friendships as conditional on whether or not they wanna bone you
It's the most practical answer, and the one that will make things better in the long run.
If someone is absolutely obsessed with someone, do you think they will stop just because they don't act on it for so long? It's not going to get better by waiting.
The incel answer would be to draw out your own pain and eventually get crushed when she gets a boyfriend.
Of course you can be friends with someone, then catch feelings. Sometimes those feelings are unreciprocated.
IIN to feel so hopelessly attracted to a same-sex friend?
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Do yourself a favor. Distance yourself from her, because if she's not into you then all you will do is hurt yourself more.
Plenty of guys have found themselves in a situation like this
(except usually the girl is attracted to men but just not him), and the solution is always to move on.
Go find someone else.
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This is the most incel-sounding answer someone could give. Yeah, a friend you have a crush on not reciprocating your feelings always sucks, but if your instinct is to turn your back on them and cut them off for that reason, then you were never friends with them in the first place. Friends don't see their friendships as conditional on whether or not they wanna bone you
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It's the most practical answer, and the one that will make things better in the long run.
If someone is absolutely obsessed with someone, do you think they will stop just because they don't act on it for so long? It's not going to get better by waiting.
The incel answer would be to draw out your own pain and eventually get crushed when she gets a boyfriend.
Of course you can be friends with someone, then catch feelings. Sometimes those feelings are unreciprocated.