It's a tricky one. I think the most important thing is to talk about it and try to come to some sort of mutual understanding. Men and women have different ideas about sex and it's hard for us girls to accept our men getting off looking at other women, but it certainly helps if our men can be open with us about it and explain that it is us that they love. If we know a bit about their fantasies we can become part of them, either with dressing up or role playing some situations. Have a bit of fun and make him realize you enjoy it, too!
One thing is your partner looking at porn when you're out of the house. It's another thing to be in need of a bit of attention and find that your partner has been avoiding you and prefers to look at porn. But does he know that you feel like this?
My boyfriend is Mexican and it's really hard for him to open up as there's this whole catholic guilt thing and he gets defensive and angry. It's not been easy and deep down I know he's a lovely guy. He tries to satisfy me when he can, so I guess I can't really complain. We've also made some sexy videos and pics together and this helps. It may not be true but I like to think that he looks at these rather than at other girls.
Good luck girls! There are a lot of us in the same boat but I think it's all about understanding eachother and a bit of compromise on both sides.
IIN to feel really down after finding out my boyfriend watches porn
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It's a tricky one. I think the most important thing is to talk about it and try to come to some sort of mutual understanding. Men and women have different ideas about sex and it's hard for us girls to accept our men getting off looking at other women, but it certainly helps if our men can be open with us about it and explain that it is us that they love. If we know a bit about their fantasies we can become part of them, either with dressing up or role playing some situations. Have a bit of fun and make him realize you enjoy it, too!
One thing is your partner looking at porn when you're out of the house. It's another thing to be in need of a bit of attention and find that your partner has been avoiding you and prefers to look at porn. But does he know that you feel like this?
My boyfriend is Mexican and it's really hard for him to open up as there's this whole catholic guilt thing and he gets defensive and angry. It's not been easy and deep down I know he's a lovely guy. He tries to satisfy me when he can, so I guess I can't really complain. We've also made some sexy videos and pics together and this helps. It may not be true but I like to think that he looks at these rather than at other girls.
Good luck girls! There are a lot of us in the same boat but I think it's all about understanding eachother and a bit of compromise on both sides.