To all the women who think that having a man watch porn means you aren't enough for him: do you watch chick flicks? If so, why do you feel the need to watch and fantasize about other people having relationships? Isn't your relationship with your boyfriend enough for you? If your boyfriend is guilty of cheating on you with Jenna Jamison, then you're just as guilty of cheating on him with Brad Pitt. Or if you don't like that analogy, every woman who has ever read a romance novel is a cheater. Why are graphic visual depictions of sex such a big deal, while you can buy books filled with graphic written descriptions of sex in the freaking supermarket?
I watch porn. My wife knows it, because I've never tried to hide it from her, because I'm not ashamed of it. Sometimes she watches it with me. She frequently reads erotica, and sometimes I read it with her (she likes when I read it to her). At then end of the day, she's the only one I'm interested in actually having sex with, and I'm the only one she's interested in actually having sex with. Plus, all the porn and erotica has made our sex life so much better and more satisfying.
There is a difference between women watching romantic movies (aka chick flicks) and reading romance novels and men watching porn. Women don't act on what they read or see in the movies like men "jack off" to porn.
I understand that women and men think differently.
I am an average built women and I have nothing against women who are larger than I am. However my boyfriend watches porn of "chubby" women. This upsets me because I feel as though my body is inadequate. Then my brain starts spinning wondering if he'd rather be with a larger woman. I know he has been with larger women in the past and i am desperately trying to get down to my pre-pregnancy weight after having 3 pregnancies. He always tells me I am fine the way I am, but I am having such a difficult time getting past the porn... It feels like it's a blow to my self-esteem and yes it does make me feel like I'm not good enough for him.... that he'd rather have sex with an image, than with me. I love him so much, but am just having a very hard time dealing with this. (I've had trust issues due to men cheating including my ex-husband in the past.)
So true. But chick flicks might be a better example than erotica since girls tend to love the romance of the whole relationship more than guys and guys the physical aspect more
IIN to feel really down after finding out my boyfriend watches porn
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To all the women who think that having a man watch porn means you aren't enough for him: do you watch chick flicks? If so, why do you feel the need to watch and fantasize about other people having relationships? Isn't your relationship with your boyfriend enough for you? If your boyfriend is guilty of cheating on you with Jenna Jamison, then you're just as guilty of cheating on him with Brad Pitt. Or if you don't like that analogy, every woman who has ever read a romance novel is a cheater. Why are graphic visual depictions of sex such a big deal, while you can buy books filled with graphic written descriptions of sex in the freaking supermarket?
I watch porn. My wife knows it, because I've never tried to hide it from her, because I'm not ashamed of it. Sometimes she watches it with me. She frequently reads erotica, and sometimes I read it with her (she likes when I read it to her). At then end of the day, she's the only one I'm interested in actually having sex with, and I'm the only one she's interested in actually having sex with. Plus, all the porn and erotica has made our sex life so much better and more satisfying.
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Romance novels are gay & most normal women don't read them. Stupid example.
There is a difference between women watching romantic movies (aka chick flicks) and reading romance novels and men watching porn. Women don't act on what they read or see in the movies like men "jack off" to porn.
I understand that women and men think differently.
I am an average built women and I have nothing against women who are larger than I am. However my boyfriend watches porn of "chubby" women. This upsets me because I feel as though my body is inadequate. Then my brain starts spinning wondering if he'd rather be with a larger woman. I know he has been with larger women in the past and i am desperately trying to get down to my pre-pregnancy weight after having 3 pregnancies. He always tells me I am fine the way I am, but I am having such a difficult time getting past the porn... It feels like it's a blow to my self-esteem and yes it does make me feel like I'm not good enough for him.... that he'd rather have sex with an image, than with me. I love him so much, but am just having a very hard time dealing with this. (I've had trust issues due to men cheating including my ex-husband in the past.)
So true. But chick flicks might be a better example than erotica since girls tend to love the romance of the whole relationship more than guys and guys the physical aspect more