IIN to feel really down after finding out my boyfriend watches porn

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  • I agree with pretty much 100% if what has been writeen... i really do understand that it's just a guy thing, that it's not at all like cheating, they are attracted to the action not so much the woman in the porn and it doesn't mean he loves you any less. Either way when I found out it was heartbreaking... i couldnt help but be so sad and feel ugly no matter how hard i tried to logic with myself. My bf doesnt watch anymore as he knows how it makes me feel yet I feel bad like I'm being bitchy and paranoid by not letting him (I have never told him he can not watch porn, he decided to stop

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    • Thats how i feel but I asked him to stop watching it, because when he does it literally feels like my heart is breaking and its so hard not to cry, but I know its a guy thing and hes told me its just about the act, but I make him vidoes and he has lots of pictures and I am ALWAYS willing to try anything, and im always willing, I have even told him he could wake me up if he was horny.
      But it didnt hurt my feelings this much until i realized he was doing it kind of behind my back- He would wait for me to jump in the shower, go on a short walk, fall asleep, And i felt completely betrayed and unwanted.
      But I feel like a bitch telling him I dont want him to watch por, asking him not to, and I get paranoid and will randomley check the history even though I know its clean since we share a computer, he isnt that stupid, but I always feel like hes watching it on private browser while im gone or something

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