Ok reading these comments is like, upsetting because it reminds me of how i feel, but it makes me feel better. i've been with my fiance for about a year and a half and didn't know he watched it until after we were engaged. WOW. i am actually alright looking when i really think about it, but i have to WORK to look even ALIVE. my body is average...but NOTHING compared to those girls. we almost broke up over this issue because he has admitted he's addicted to it but obviously doesn't want to get help. well, i asked him not to and he agreed but yeah. he still does. i'm not leaving him, but it does hurt me. hes tried to tell me that i'm the only one like this and every guy watches it and its just a guy thing...ok?? so what? to me he doesn't really need to understand because he WONT understand. especially if he's addicted to it its like telling a drug addict no. it's a matter of RESPECT for me.
he says he isn't looking at the girls. yeah they're hot, but its the act of sex between two people. well okay...but i have a very hard time believing he chooses the videos he chooses solely because of what happens and he doesn't choose the hottest girl, but idk.
maybe your situation isn't like mine and i'm going on forever for nothing, but maybe he really isn't looking at them and seriously doesn't wish you looked like them...like my guy...but if he respects you he'll stop...and if he doesn't stop...think about taking the next step which i'd say would be counseling.
IIN to feel really down after finding out my boyfriend watches porn
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Ok reading these comments is like, upsetting because it reminds me of how i feel, but it makes me feel better. i've been with my fiance for about a year and a half and didn't know he watched it until after we were engaged. WOW. i am actually alright looking when i really think about it, but i have to WORK to look even ALIVE. my body is average...but NOTHING compared to those girls. we almost broke up over this issue because he has admitted he's addicted to it but obviously doesn't want to get help. well, i asked him not to and he agreed but yeah. he still does. i'm not leaving him, but it does hurt me. hes tried to tell me that i'm the only one like this and every guy watches it and its just a guy thing...ok?? so what? to me he doesn't really need to understand because he WONT understand. especially if he's addicted to it its like telling a drug addict no. it's a matter of RESPECT for me.
he says he isn't looking at the girls. yeah they're hot, but its the act of sex between two people. well okay...but i have a very hard time believing he chooses the videos he chooses solely because of what happens and he doesn't choose the hottest girl, but idk.
maybe your situation isn't like mine and i'm going on forever for nothing, but maybe he really isn't looking at them and seriously doesn't wish you looked like them...like my guy...but if he respects you he'll stop...and if he doesn't stop...think about taking the next step which i'd say would be counseling.