I think women mostly get perturbed by guys watching porn when they don't feel their partner is solidly committed to them or sexualy satisfying them enough so it can seem or even be that the porn is a form of competition. Weather the guy is getting unrealisticaly warped by it even if he likes her or isn't simply that into her & doesn't care to be more discrete or save it for times she isn't around or is more often spent sexualy via the porn.
There is sometimes just simply a guy who is just crassly ignorant viewing porn around her with no agenda like the kid who wanks infrot of mom's visitors until told it's a private not public activity.
In a good relationship, sexualy & emotionaly the guy will still do porn without it intruding in their couple life and their partners know they probably do, don't mind or even want to know the details of what he views. It's usualy left to when girlfiend is out - unless they are sgharing it.
So look at the context of your relationship, how he treats you, his level of sensitivity/ understanding ( is he just stupid crass in how or when).
It is the "how & when he watches porn with how he behaves after viewing porn" is what is telling about relatedness potential, both where you fit and about him as a person/potential partner.
Watching porn which most guys will do at times isn't, just a fact of life.
IIN to feel really down after finding out my boyfriend watches porn
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I think women mostly get perturbed by guys watching porn when they don't feel their partner is solidly committed to them or sexualy satisfying them enough so it can seem or even be that the porn is a form of competition. Weather the guy is getting unrealisticaly warped by it even if he likes her or isn't simply that into her & doesn't care to be more discrete or save it for times she isn't around or is more often spent sexualy via the porn.
There is sometimes just simply a guy who is just crassly ignorant viewing porn around her with no agenda like the kid who wanks infrot of mom's visitors until told it's a private not public activity.
In a good relationship, sexualy & emotionaly the guy will still do porn without it intruding in their couple life and their partners know they probably do, don't mind or even want to know the details of what he views. It's usualy left to when girlfiend is out - unless they are sgharing it.
So look at the context of your relationship, how he treats you, his level of sensitivity/ understanding ( is he just stupid crass in how or when).
It is the "how & when he watches porn with how he behaves after viewing porn" is what is telling about relatedness potential, both where you fit and about him as a person/potential partner.
Watching porn which most guys will do at times isn't, just a fact of life.