I can absolutely empathize with the girls here. Despite what I hear and read about how it's ok for men to look at porn, I just can't accept it. It makes me feel so inadequate. Isn't it if a man loves you, he will make you feel beautiful? How can you feel beautiful when you know he stares at all these naked girls with big boobs behind your back? How can he say he loves you when he can't stop doing the one thing you hate? Is he going to do it when I'm not available, sick, overseas, working or pregnant? I recently broke up with my bf of two years because of this very issue. There was a period of time where he promised me he won't look at it, and it was true to my knowledge. But then he went through a tough time and succumbed to it. I was devastated. I found myself thinking about it all the time, it was starting to interfere with my work. He was as apologetic as one could be, but I felt so betrayed that in the end I chose to leave. I still think about it everyday, and it makes me feel so sad. I don't know if I will ever get over it...
IIN to feel really down after finding out my boyfriend watches porn
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I can absolutely empathize with the girls here. Despite what I hear and read about how it's ok for men to look at porn, I just can't accept it. It makes me feel so inadequate. Isn't it if a man loves you, he will make you feel beautiful? How can you feel beautiful when you know he stares at all these naked girls with big boobs behind your back? How can he say he loves you when he can't stop doing the one thing you hate? Is he going to do it when I'm not available, sick, overseas, working or pregnant? I recently broke up with my bf of two years because of this very issue. There was a period of time where he promised me he won't look at it, and it was true to my knowledge. But then he went through a tough time and succumbed to it. I was devastated. I found myself thinking about it all the time, it was starting to interfere with my work. He was as apologetic as one could be, but I felt so betrayed that in the end I chose to leave. I still think about it everyday, and it makes me feel so sad. I don't know if I will ever get over it...