Girl, when I was younger I was freaked out by the idea of my boyfriend watching porn too. It's totally normal!
However, as Samurai said, guys watch porn. People watch porn. I watch porn! My boyfriend is pretty open with me about the porn he watches and he'll even tell me when he comes across something particularly weird or amusing, although I usually don't want to hear about it. I'm fine with him watching porn, but I don't necessarily want to know all the time, if that makes sense. Not because I think it's wrong at all, but I guess just because I feel like he is entitled to a certain amount of privacy.
Porn stars are a two dimensional image on a screen. Most (normal) guys are completely aware that "real" girls don't usually appreciate getting squirted on the face, or railed in the ass. My boyfriend has told me that he doesn't even see porn stars as people. They are just objects. Usually, it's not even the girl that they are getting off to, but the action....of other people having sex. I don't know about your boyfriend, but mine can't truly find a girl attractive if he doesn't respect her. Visually appealing, yes, but attractive no. That probably sounds naive but he is pretty different from a lot of men.
Trust me, my boyfriend is the most loyal, committed guy in the world and I trust him 150%%. Watching porn does NOT mean your boyfriend is more capable of cheating on you! And it does NOT mean that you don't satisfy him. Half the time, guys watch porn and jerk off out of boredom when you're not around. Haven't you ever felt frisky and taken care of business when he wasn't around? Anyways, I'm rambling, but just know that your boyfriend is completely normal, and it's normal for you to feel strangely about him watching porn, but you're going to have to learn to be okay with it because you'll never find a guy that doesn't watch it :) Good luck!
IIN to feel really down after finding out my boyfriend watches porn
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Girl, when I was younger I was freaked out by the idea of my boyfriend watching porn too. It's totally normal!
However, as Samurai said, guys watch porn. People watch porn. I watch porn! My boyfriend is pretty open with me about the porn he watches and he'll even tell me when he comes across something particularly weird or amusing, although I usually don't want to hear about it. I'm fine with him watching porn, but I don't necessarily want to know all the time, if that makes sense. Not because I think it's wrong at all, but I guess just because I feel like he is entitled to a certain amount of privacy.
Porn stars are a two dimensional image on a screen. Most (normal) guys are completely aware that "real" girls don't usually appreciate getting squirted on the face, or railed in the ass. My boyfriend has told me that he doesn't even see porn stars as people. They are just objects. Usually, it's not even the girl that they are getting off to, but the action....of other people having sex. I don't know about your boyfriend, but mine can't truly find a girl attractive if he doesn't respect her. Visually appealing, yes, but attractive no. That probably sounds naive but he is pretty different from a lot of men.
Trust me, my boyfriend is the most loyal, committed guy in the world and I trust him 150%%. Watching porn does NOT mean your boyfriend is more capable of cheating on you! And it does NOT mean that you don't satisfy him. Half the time, guys watch porn and jerk off out of boredom when you're not around. Haven't you ever felt frisky and taken care of business when he wasn't around? Anyways, I'm rambling, but just know that your boyfriend is completely normal, and it's normal for you to feel strangely about him watching porn, but you're going to have to learn to be okay with it because you'll never find a guy that doesn't watch it :) Good luck!
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Omg you're a wise woman. Porn is to a man what chick flicks are to a woman