Honestly, I feel that if a girl is willing to post herself online like that then she should expect those kinds of remarks. Yes people post themselves from trips to the beach all the time but reality says that you're still going to be visually revealing and that will easily attract eyes. Just because someone points that out doesn't mean that suddenly they are completely wrong, own up to your actions at least.
If she found this offensive, as some people don't like things like that justifiably, then she could have simply removed the comment and calmly mentioned to the OP about how she doesn't like things like that and kept cool about it. I think that is the mature way of handling it instead of "Oh god, a guy responded in a bold way after I boldly posted myself in a bikini, must insta-block irrationally with no explanation". People who do that aren't worth crying over.
I'm not one to post photos of myself at all, let alone ones that show a lit of skin, but just because someone hapoens to be wearing a bikini in a photo doesn't mean they are asking for that kind of attention.
You're definitely right, posting pictures like that doesn't mean they are asking for it, one could just want to share a good time they had, that is harmless. What I am saying though is that posting a visually attractive picture will get positive remarks on how they look, that is just how things work and I don't think anyone can disagree with that at least. Not that people should step out of line but I feel there are better ways to handle a small comment like that than instantly blocking someone and jumping the gun.
IIN to feel mad at myself that women are so easily offended
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Honestly, I feel that if a girl is willing to post herself online like that then she should expect those kinds of remarks. Yes people post themselves from trips to the beach all the time but reality says that you're still going to be visually revealing and that will easily attract eyes. Just because someone points that out doesn't mean that suddenly they are completely wrong, own up to your actions at least.
If she found this offensive, as some people don't like things like that justifiably, then she could have simply removed the comment and calmly mentioned to the OP about how she doesn't like things like that and kept cool about it. I think that is the mature way of handling it instead of "Oh god, a guy responded in a bold way after I boldly posted myself in a bikini, must insta-block irrationally with no explanation". People who do that aren't worth crying over.
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I'm not one to post photos of myself at all, let alone ones that show a lit of skin, but just because someone hapoens to be wearing a bikini in a photo doesn't mean they are asking for that kind of attention.
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You're definitely right, posting pictures like that doesn't mean they are asking for it, one could just want to share a good time they had, that is harmless. What I am saying though is that posting a visually attractive picture will get positive remarks on how they look, that is just how things work and I don't think anyone can disagree with that at least. Not that people should step out of line but I feel there are better ways to handle a small comment like that than instantly blocking someone and jumping the gun.
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"They're looking at your tits"is more creepy than positive...
Totally agree with your last point, though.