Is it normal to feel like most of the people around you lack common sense?

I know there are a number of intelligent people out there but it feels as though they are hard to find. I see people doing stupid stuff all the time, thinking that they know what they're talking about when they likely haven't even put any time into researching the topic beyond what the media has told them. Worse yet are the ones who don't know what they're talking about, have no facts to back up their claims (the things they claim are facts are mere opinions or misinformation) yet are still so sure that they're correct that they'll sit there are argue about it until they turn blue in the face.

I don't care how old or young they are, they simply come of as fools to me. If someone has researched a topic beyond what they saw on TV or read in a paper, I have no issues with having an informed debate with them. Heck, I might learn something from those other people who have done the research. However, these people who think their opinion is fact and opt to remain blissfully ignorant even in the face of proven facts from numerous different sources (Which I try to find the least bias sources for my information and also look at both sides of the argument) which they just brush off because they hadn't seen that source (Not hard for them to miss when they refuse to research something to begin with) before trying to bash you over the head with what they think is right are inexcusable.

I tend to find more of the uninformed than the informed these days. Is it normal for me to feel like I'm one of the few who still knows how to properly use this wonderful thing called a brain that we all have when the vast majority seems to be uninformed, close minded and lacking in common sense?

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  • dom180

    Lots of people think they're part of the "enlightened minority". Worse, they fail see the intelligence and complexity in other people which they see in themselves, and then too easily disregard them.

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    • robbieforgotpw

      I can think of one on this site who believes they're enlightened and spends all their time trying to prove it

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    • Wow I just happened upon this page and there is a huge flame war. People writing essays and shit. But your comment concisely summarizes the antithesis of OP's snobbery, not much more needs to be said.

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      • I'm not trying to be snob about it, sorry if it came off that way. Nonetheless, I see these things every day and, when I wrote this, I had really had enough of it after having to fix a number of other people's mistakes. I understand no one is perfect, I get that, but there really is a limit to how much is acceptable. What's worse are those who purposely do a bang up job just so someone else will do it for them, thus getting out of work. It really starts to get under one's skin after a while.

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    • Then there's the people who stand in front of a broken automatic door waving their arms at it to make it open when there is a sign written in bold black letters on a big ol' red background reading "Automatic door broken, please use other entrance"

      Yes, I actually witnessed this, and it wasn't just one or two people, I saw about seven do it.

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      • dom180

        I suppose you've never done anything stupid.

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        • Oh I've done a few things that, while not the brightest of ideas, still turned out pretty well even though it really could have been done better in hindsight. The difference is that I learn from those mistakes quickly and do my best not to make it a habit.

          Then again I am a lot harder on myself for my mistakes than the average person seems to be. I don't see my mistakes as acceptable, I see them as a learning experience and do my best not to repeat them but I never see them as acceptable nor are they excusable. I really hold fast to the belief that one should live and learn but when people refuse to learn it can be a bit of a problem.

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  • bananaface

    Guess it's not that common then:P.

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    • CS13

      Ah yes, "Common Sense" is a huge misnomer it seems.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Yes no one seems to know how to CLOSE THAT FUCKING DOOR.

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  • disthing

    Are you sure you mean 'common sense'? Sounds like you're addressing general ignorance to me :/

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    • Common sense was the word that came to mind when I was typing this up.

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      • disthing

        Oh ok. But it is different from ignorance. You can be ignorant but have great common sense and vice versa. Nevermind anyway the rest of your post is self-explanatory :)

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        • That's rather true, maybe I should watch my wording a little better in the future.

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  • kingsleycrowne

    we are heading into an age where there are dangerous levels of dependency on technology. I think that while technological evolution grows rapidly, human evolution is on the decline. Simply because we are starting to depend on the machines to think for us. I think this contributes to the problem you have mentioned.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing

    That is because they do not. Everyone goes by feelings even in politics. They operate with greed. Sex is another huge draw back that people tend to take too far often. That or just are not doing it responsibly. If you think with any kind of logic or reasoning you are mad! You are a monster and you will be shunned. Fact is emotions are pointless if things are not operating correctly. If you are still sitting in a pile of shit that is still shit. You can smile and grin all you want but no matter how you feel nothing is going to change that. People base everything on love, sex, greed. When love is hardly even obtainable. Most people do not take relationships seriously and are very selfish. They do not consider the feelings of others or the needs of other for that matter. They live in their own worlds which mean we all need to fuck, hook up and possibly make babies. They do not care about where we live, how we get the home, or even if our partner stays. Just that is the huge priority everyone now a day seems to live by. Which is ridiculous but we must either follow it or be hated.

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    • I can't remember who, and I dont feel like looking it up, but I remember hearing some theory that reason/"common sense" itself is just a tool that we all use to excuse our purely emotional, instinctual behaviors to other people.

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      • 1000yrVampireKing

        People who are overly emotional will be upset by simple "Facts" and just because you know and knowing the FACTS does not mean you have to be a snob. This is the issues. People who think they know everything or have everything will often become snobs. People who only think with emotions will ignore the fact to save what fragile minds they have. Some people agree with FACT but hate being treated poorly by snobs. So they would purposely disagree with that fact for the reason they hate being treated like shit.

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        • Get a life

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      • 1000yrVampireKing

        Common sense is knowing the logical conclusion or solution to most situations. People with no common sense can still be brilliant when head is in a book but can not operate on own in any everyday situation. How this is actually possible I have no idea. Some people do not get cultural references which is common knowledge but might not be common sense. Emotions are irrelevant in most cases. We can all be happy but people need to realize nothing is free. It always comes at the cost of someone else hard work or someone else pay check. That is not an emotional thing. That is a FACT. Get it? FACT? We have FACT and we have OPINION. Do we need to produce energy to keep our bodies going FACT. This little piece of knowledge can be applied to a lot of things.

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  • howaminotmyself

    Common sense shouldn't require research to engage in a debate. But I get what you mean. Common sense should tell you to drop the topic before you turn blue. :P

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  • This story seems worn out but for whatever reason I got a notification about a reply to my comment on this story, even though I never commented.

    Might as well leave some input though- people who say things like "common sense isn't common" are usually incredibly arrogant. Yes, people do stupid things, common sense isn't very common. However, the fact that you feel the need to point it out seems to posit that you are somehow uncommon, and smarter than everyone else. Get over yourself and stop judging people. If I followed you around all day every day I'm certain I could find a lot of idiotic shit that you do so I can sharpshoot your actions too.

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    • May be more challenging for you to find a lot of huge mistakes from me in one day, but that's mostly because I judge myself more harshly than I do anyone else and refuse to accept or excuse my own mistakes. Of course that has it's own draw backs, such as a heightened stress level which I would not expect others to subject themselves to.

      But there does come a point when you just have to look at people and go "Seriously? you thought that was a good idea why?" and wonder just what they were thinking. When their mistakes begin to interfere with my life when I'm pushing my limits to get things done right then something's wrong. I'm not about to lower my personal standards and not meet my own expectations just because other people keep messing things up. I don't hold everyone to the same standards that I hold my self to but it'd be rather nice if their problems would stop turning into my problems because people know they can look to me to get things done the right way.

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  • lamestarsw

    OKAY Mr. Mensa, while you have your epic all changing power debates with a bunch of 9th grade drop-outs that make you feel uber-intelligent, you should try hanging out with 150 year old men who are debating weighty topics that change everything when they are done.

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    • I encounter people of all age groups, educational levels and backgrounds. Most of them still come off as fools. As I said, not all, there are some very intelligent people out there and I love speaking with them but the majority of people, of all ages and educational backgrounds, seem to not want to use their heads for some reason.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing

    The people who know better will often try to fix the issues of the world. One day you will sit back and realize you can not fix the world. You are just one person. To fix things you need group effort. So you will become bitter, angry and wish everyone to hell. You will die angry and you will become infuriated at the tiniest things. For the reason you felt you failed when you should be helping these people. Yet no one wants your help. They want to destroy them selves. So those of us who see the issues are driven to madness.

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    • suckonthis9

      Please see my other comment in this post.

      We all need to try not to perpetually spread these archaic concepts around.

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    • VioletTrees

      Are you ok?

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      • MilleBornes

        I don't think they are. On some level I agree, overall, we humans have failed. A LOT of unfit people should not exist, let alone create more, but they have gone dark. The stuff that creates super villains. lol

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    • MilleBornes

      Sooo, this isn't just about common sense anymore

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      • 1000yrVampireKing

        It is about everything. People do not think with logic. They make the same mistakes over and over. Even when people made the exact mistakes years before. You see it in government, you see it in war, in history in every single flaw of mankind. You see it in teens, and in children, you even see it in marriage, relationships and adults. We continue to fail over and over and over.

        We all have the ability to fix it yet most of us wont. We are too lustful, greedy, selfish. So we continue in this maddening downward spiral till the plane hits the ground. What do we do when this happens? We redo it and make the same idiotic mistakes. People do not fix anything they continue and continue and continue.


        One day we die and the ones who are better off are the ignorant people who do not understand we have issues in the world. Don’t have to be a brainic to realize we have a problem. You just have to open your eyes. No one wants to though.

        Too busy getting stds and having children they do not want so they could get divorce like the worthless pigs that they are! That is what humanity is! That is how worthless we become! Not a point in any of this since we all make the same stupid mistakes.

        This is considered normal and excepted. How is this the excepted and expected. Should we not be faithful to the person we marry? Maybe relationships should mean something. Maybe you should love your children not use them at pons to get back at your ex husband/wife. No this is normal and people do not try to prevent it.

        The same stupid mistakes! Every single time!

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        • 1000yrVampireKing

          Why would anyone want to get married? It means absolutely nothing anymore. Just a ticking time bomb.

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          • 1000yrVampireKing

            We try to say we are above pigs, and dogs and cats though I really have more sympathy for them. They do not choose their own destruction but people do! They also will abuse each other and animals for the fuck of it! Yet completely take away any fault from a person. If humans are really this stupid I really do not think the dog you kicked when you got home is any less worthy.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing

    People enjoy being bliss so they ignore everything that matter. This goes for parents and adults as well. Many do not think about kids or the future. They just say "Fuck it lets have kids and sort it out later"! When they later divorce they do not think about the children only how to use them to attack each other. None of us really matter and people just use each other most of the time. Even friends for the most turn out to be useless. Not all but from past experience I agree people over all are just very shitty. Even if someone sees something back going on they will ignore it since either they do not care or do not want to get involved. Often times will just be cheering on the side lines. Since this is so much fun to watch! Some people believe if you do not get sex like you want it is ok to rape people. People will even forgive people for this type of mentality. People will kill for money and people in charge of money will often hoard it. People with power will screw over everyone under them even children if that means profits will be made. That means schools and pharmacies.

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  • MilleBornes

    Normal, yes. However, common sense is kinda described for Common People. The people in the villages, that weren't able to make it to the learning institutions, however, learned to survive just as well. I agree that people are stupid and some are far more "book smart" than I am, but seriously....common sense * low coolant, usually equals overheated engine and car troubles, yet the Biblical History Scientific Theorist had to replace three of his cars....idiot! When someone researches something, they're only memorizing what someone else wrote or told them, not learning. My son looked at the shape jof a triangle and the spot it goes in, AND the spot for a circle. He learned without anyone guiding him, which matches. When I started "teaching" him colors, he simply REMEMBERED which is which. I could have told him any name. "But, you'd be wrong" only because I'd be the only one doing so. If the masses followed, then I'd be right and Tom the scientist, along with ms. Munn the English teacher, and Sir Eigfried who wrote a book about the wonderful colors...Triangle, Jump, and Touch!, would have my back. Now, if you're making an argument of how people who don't know the subject you talk about and they argue for no reason, you MAY be right. Then again, maybe you still argue for the same being right. Your words give the feel of a woman who needs to be right. When someone proves you wrong...you want documents and dates! lol. I recently quit an ex that was that way.

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  • joey1995

    if everyone would go 90 on the freeway, then it'd be pretty hard to get caught.... however, if you are one of those annoying speed limit freaks, use the frontage road and stay out of my way. :)

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    • I think you missed the point a bit. It's not about following laws or not taking risks.

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  • suckonthis9

    Please do not use the euphemized form, for a fictitious nether world. I have researched this, and I (and others) have proven that such a place does not exist.
    I do not want to hear the excuse that,' it's just a figure of speech'. It does incite other people to believe in such archaic concepts (as DannyElf did, who stated this as a matter of fact, in their comment).
    Please relegate this to the dustbin of antiquity.

    'Common sense' and 'normal behaviour', aren't always necessarily correct. My humblest apologies to Benjamin Franklin, Thomas Paine, and others, who helped to popularize this phrase, in its modern context.

    What we need is 'Sensible Behaviour', not 'common sense'.

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    • charli.m

      Well, then.

      When you start exhibiting sensible behaviour, then perhaps people will start listening to your ideas.

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      • suckonthis9

        I am 'sensible'.

        I have proposed many viable and sensible guidelines and recommendations.

        But, instead of listening to these, many people stubbornly cling on to selfish, greedy and antiquated beliefs, which are often and usually 'nonsense'.

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        • charli.m

          A "sensible" person would go about voicing their opinions in a less hostile manner.

          If I am to understand you correctly from your previous rants, your sole contribution to your cause seems to be pissing off as many people as you can on this web site.

          Oh, and not adding to the world's population. Thank fuck for that.

          Unless you do snap and carry out those rape threats you were making.

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          • suckonthis9

            I DID NOT MAKE ANY "RAPE THREATS" TO ANYONE!!!
            CEASE AND DESIST FROM YOUR LIBELOUS BEHAVIOUR IMMEDIATELY!!!

            YOUR ETHICAL RATING HAS BEEN DIMINISHED!!!

            That's right, we should be nice to and 'tolerate' every troublemaker on the planet, just as we've been doing. It's worked so well, up until now, endlessly killing people and destroying the planet.
            A page right out of your bleeding heart playbook.

            Wait just one minute...shouldn't you tolerate me as well?

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            • charli.m

              You're so rageful for a benevolent being...

              I don't try and force my own made up rules on anyone, sweetheart.

              I'm done. I'll let your hatefilled reply do all the work for me.

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        • 1000yrVampireKing

          You most certainly are not. You attack everyone for everything. It seems you go on post just to disagree and say how everyone is violating these rules. Who says you are our god? Why must we obey and worship you? I do not think you are worthy of trying to claim that title. So why don't you suck it. Who says your rules mean anything beside you? Most of your comments are not even helpful. They are insult piled upon insult. Sure a broken clock is right twice a day but that does not make it reliable for the other 22 hours. The point of this site is to help people. Not point out every flaw in every post. We will not bow to you. SO STOP PREACHING SINCE WE WILL NOT MAKE YOU OUR NEW IDOL!

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          • suckonthis9

            I am not 'your deity', I never was 'your deity', and I never will be 'your deity', until some ignoramus makes me into one, just like they did in the past, with other 'people', some of who you might have heard of.
            I am presently in communication with creatures, who many people believe are deities, but they are not.
            I do not want anyone to 'obey' or 'worship' me, please stop leading people into false beliefs.
            Why you must listen, is because we are currently on a path to extinction.
            I do not want a 'title', but if you insist on giving me one, I will accept, "Ambassador of Planet Earth."

            Incorrect. I am not the one who is insulting 'them', you are!!!

            Greedy, selfish, stubborn and foolish.

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            • 1000yrVampireKing

              If you do not think you are god why do you preach. Why do you have a set of rules? That sounds like you are building a book to me. Which you seem to demand we fallow. Last time I checked you did not own us. Unless you own the site and have some evidence of it I do not see why you get to command us. What gives you that right? You can not force us to fallow you.

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    • It was a lot less offensive and vulgar than some of the words I wished to use. I was trying to keep the post somewhat tame as opposed to going into a full rant mode thus attempted to avoid more vulgar expressions. If you do not agree with the usage of the word then very well, you are not required to agree but I will still write things out as I wish to nonetheless.

      That said, I do understand where you are coming from with the second part of your post but that does also open up another question. What is sensible behavior? Who or what entity defines what is considered sensible and what is not? The overly religious believe that sex outside of marriage is not sensible yet many have no issues with it. A number of people believe that same sex marriage is not sensible even though it harms no one. What is sensible to one is not to others and leave so much up to interpretation. Much of it based upon religious beliefs let me mind you.

      "Sensible" is an even more abstract concept than "normal" or even the term I used "common sense" and, while I do understand what you are saying here a number of other people could take that word and apply various definitions to it, many of which would conflict with one another. Sensible tends to be more tied to tradition, belief and opinion so you may wish to be a little clearer in your use of the word.

      Though I must say thank you for such a well typed out response even though it was brief, even if we do not agree completely.

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      • suckonthis9

        To answer your question, who decides 'what is sensible', is the majority of responsible and eligible persons in any given region, in a true democracy.

        As for a definition of 'sensible', this should be made 'legal', through legislation, but I tend to favour a definition close to definition 4 : having, containing, or indicative of good sense or reason : rational, reasonable <sensible people> <made a sensible answer>, with the synonyms, material, perceptible, aware, wise, as defined in the Merriam-Webster dictionary, and used in conjunction with known and proven facts of the Physical Universe.

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        • suckonthis9

          In this way, abstract concepts would still be allowable, as long as they conform to the known principles of Physics.

          Things that we do not yet know of, would then be 'conjectural'. Anything under 'conjecture', would be deemed to be either 'sensible' or 'not sensible', but each would be tested, and if proven to be not Physically possible, those would become 'nonsensical'.

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