Look, I'm a BTS fangirl. As well as a lot of other groups...but I do have some things to say to help. A lot of people find it hard to differentiate faces, especially with such large groups in the kpop industry. If you don't want to learn about them, don't. Your friends should understand.
For me it's the reverse of your situation. I love them but my friends think I'm weird. The only difference is they know I'm love them (however its more than they think). But I see your point. I don't love just their music. You see, I love who they are as a person. I don't know their blood type and birthdays and all that by heart. Nor do I know the colour of their hair during different music videos and other stuff. That's not how I fangirl. I fangirl when I see J-hope cheering everyone up when their all exhausted. Or when one of them stays up all night just to get a single part of a dance right. Or when they cry on stage because of the emotions they feel. I love the relationship ungkook, Jimin, and V have and I wish I could have the same with my friends. I love how RM cares about every one of BTS and the fans. And I love how Suga shared his birthday with as many fans as he could. I love them all because they deserve it.
And if it turns out everything was a lie, then I'll fully admit that I loved them because of the side they wanted us all to see. But if there's no hardcore evidence then I stand by them, no matter the rumor, because they love each other and they love army (fans). And they prove it and I'm lucky to say I'm a fan.
IIN to feel left out of your friend group because you don't fangirl
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Look, I'm a BTS fangirl. As well as a lot of other groups...but I do have some things to say to help. A lot of people find it hard to differentiate faces, especially with such large groups in the kpop industry. If you don't want to learn about them, don't. Your friends should understand.
For me it's the reverse of your situation. I love them but my friends think I'm weird. The only difference is they know I'm love them (however its more than they think). But I see your point. I don't love just their music. You see, I love who they are as a person. I don't know their blood type and birthdays and all that by heart. Nor do I know the colour of their hair during different music videos and other stuff. That's not how I fangirl. I fangirl when I see J-hope cheering everyone up when their all exhausted. Or when one of them stays up all night just to get a single part of a dance right. Or when they cry on stage because of the emotions they feel. I love the relationship ungkook, Jimin, and V have and I wish I could have the same with my friends. I love how RM cares about every one of BTS and the fans. And I love how Suga shared his birthday with as many fans as he could. I love them all because they deserve it.
And if it turns out everything was a lie, then I'll fully admit that I loved them because of the side they wanted us all to see. But if there's no hardcore evidence then I stand by them, no matter the rumor, because they love each other and they love army (fans). And they prove it and I'm lucky to say I'm a fan.