IIN to feel hurt if my new bf slept with someone before exclusivity?

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  • joybird
    11 years ago | pl

    Pretend to yourself that you have just started dating as from now!

    I know that this is more acceptable in the States than the UK but if he does anything from this moment on then it's time to kick him to the curb. You don't need to put up with any crap.

    I don't know why he had to tell you this at all. If you asked him, always remember NOT to ask a question that you won't like the answer to!

    I'm married over 20 years and have never asked my husband about any ex he ever had or if he ever slept with anyone. I know that I would be just like you, and be hurt. Remember that the past is over, do not keep dragging it up and hopefully you two can move on to have a future.

    Good luck and let this be a lesson. You don't need to tell him things about your past either that might hurt him.

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    • Xena
      11 years ago | pl

      So you are telling her to lie to herself? That's what someone pathetic does. Who wants to live a lie? Oh I guess you do.

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      • joybird
        11 years ago | pl

        She's going to have to convince herself of this if she wants to get past it.

        Chill Xena, sounds like you've been really hurt :)

        Worse things happen at sea.

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