You were seeing each other but not an item, I don't see that he did anything wrong. And he slept with two girls, once, a while back. He's sleeping with you all the time, and clearly chose you over them.
As for what does he see in other girls? Lots of things. You can't expect him to only find you pretty, biologically we are attracted to who we are attracted to. It doesn't mean better, just means different, and if he wasn't sure what he wanted of course he tested other waters, to make sure that you were truly the direction he wanted to go.
At least that's how I would see the logic, assuming no ulterior motives. Then again I certainly can't attempt to judge your S.O.'s character based simply on a short story on a forum.
IIN to feel hurt if my new bf slept with someone before exclusivity?
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You were seeing each other but not an item, I don't see that he did anything wrong. And he slept with two girls, once, a while back. He's sleeping with you all the time, and clearly chose you over them.
As for what does he see in other girls? Lots of things. You can't expect him to only find you pretty, biologically we are attracted to who we are attracted to. It doesn't mean better, just means different, and if he wasn't sure what he wanted of course he tested other waters, to make sure that you were truly the direction he wanted to go.
At least that's how I would see the logic, assuming no ulterior motives. Then again I certainly can't attempt to judge your S.O.'s character based simply on a short story on a forum.