It's normal because even though you weren't exclusive at the time you still wanted to feel like you were the only one for him. It's kind of like wanting someone to do something for you without having to ask because they genuinely want to. I'm assuming that you didn't sleep with anyone else at that time and this makes you feel like he doesn't love you as much as you love him.
Although I have never been in this situation I think I can empathize.
The advice I can give you is to realize that he did choose you over her. He decided to make you exclusive which means that whatever past relationships he had in the past are over. His love for you has grown and he chose you.
It makes me feel better knowing that my feelings aren't all that crazy. You're right that at the end of the day he did choose me and I should give him the benefit of the doubt. Thank you for taking the time to comment because I need all the support I can get right now.
Your better off getting out before you do really love him. Cut your losses. He wasn't that into you or he would have decided months ago to fuck only you. I am sure the other girl probably dumped him when he told her he wanted to commit to her and he told her about you. So you are all he was left with so he picked you.
IIN to feel hurt if my new bf slept with someone before exclusivity?
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It's normal because even though you weren't exclusive at the time you still wanted to feel like you were the only one for him. It's kind of like wanting someone to do something for you without having to ask because they genuinely want to. I'm assuming that you didn't sleep with anyone else at that time and this makes you feel like he doesn't love you as much as you love him.
Although I have never been in this situation I think I can empathize.
The advice I can give you is to realize that he did choose you over her. He decided to make you exclusive which means that whatever past relationships he had in the past are over. His love for you has grown and he chose you.
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It makes me feel better knowing that my feelings aren't all that crazy. You're right that at the end of the day he did choose me and I should give him the benefit of the doubt. Thank you for taking the time to comment because I need all the support I can get right now.
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Your better off getting out before you do really love him. Cut your losses. He wasn't that into you or he would have decided months ago to fuck only you. I am sure the other girl probably dumped him when he told her he wanted to commit to her and he told her about you. So you are all he was left with so he picked you.