That's the other thing that sucks about the situation. I see my friends able to call their fathers out on their shit but I can't. My mom confides in me for someone to talk to but she lets me know that I can't tell him I know because he already thinks she's turning us against him (for whatever reason). Like he would flip on her if he knew I knew everything
I would suggest that you have a look online for suggestions on how to recognise a narcissist.
Maybe my suspicions are wrong and you'll find that your father doesn't meet any of the criteria of narcissism, but don't be surprised if you can tick off most of the boxes on the list. If it does seem that he is indeed a narcissist, there are sites with suggestions on how to deal with a narcissistic parent.
In any case, I would suggest that you go along with your mother's request. You may believe you know your father well, but it's very likely she knows him better than you do.
Your dad sounds like a narcissistic abuser! Narcissists can't take any criticism, and they constantly play the victim, especially when they are are abusing other people.
Ask him this question, in what ways do you need to grow, or change?
IIN to feel bad for my dad
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Whatever unhappiness your father is currently living in he has most certainly brought upon himself. Cheaters are fundamentally selfish people.
Maybe your father is a sex addict? I think you should forward this website to him, and encourage him to go into recovery.
https://saa-recovery.org/
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I would suggest that you have a look online for suggestions on how to recognise a narcissist.
Maybe my suspicions are wrong and you'll find that your father doesn't meet any of the criteria of narcissism, but don't be surprised if you can tick off most of the boxes on the list. If it does seem that he is indeed a narcissist, there are sites with suggestions on how to deal with a narcissistic parent.
In any case, I would suggest that you go along with your mother's request. You may believe you know your father well, but it's very likely she knows him better than you do.
Your dad sounds like a narcissistic abuser! Narcissists can't take any criticism, and they constantly play the victim, especially when they are are abusing other people.
Ask him this question, in what ways do you need to grow, or change?
https://youtu.be/tW5rXvFXQxY
Seriously, this will expose a narcissist!