Is it normal to fantasize about sexual things you’d never want for real?

Is it normal to enjoy watching/reading about sexual fantasies that you’d never want in real life? Like I enjoy the media but feel sickened when I imagine doing it irl.

Is It Normal?
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  • I've fantasized about getting gangraped, so yeah, I'd say it's normal.

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  • I fantatise about my wife having sex and watching her enjoying it and then joining in for sloppy seconds or kissing her after she’s just given a blowjob and double teaming her both ends! IIN?

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  • My husband and I live out our fantasies and looking for new adventures all the time. Life can really be sexciting if you'll just let loose once in a while......TRUST ME

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  • Well like the whole rape fantasy.

    The thing with fantasy is there is no aftermath, no need to go to the emergency room, no disgusting odors or tastes, no one gets hurt for real...

    I imagine most of us have some sort of sexual fantasies that are really disturbing. They may be fun to watch in porn or think about when masturbating but if tried in real life it would cause disaster.

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  • My wife and I try to fulfill our fantasy it brings us closer together, but we never do anything that either of us don't want to

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  • Reality very rarely lives up to the fantasy and it's common for the fantasy to lose all its excitement when tried out in in reality, so it's smart to stick to the fantasies

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  • I fantasize about those things and usually do them...at least try!

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    • Yeah, a lot of fun times of my life started out with a, "well, I might as well try it once" mentality.

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  • Totally normal, that is one reason porn is so popular, You and see and fantasize sexual acts that you would want to do but never would do

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  • "Fantasies are hungrier than bodies" - old saying from around the BDSM community

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  • It's not really as normal as just fantasizing about yourself doing it. Even if it is something you're not ever going to do in real life it's perfectly normal to have you doing it in a fantasy of yours. Fantasizing about the act being done by other people is more of a voyeuristic type of fantasy. I know a lot, a TON of people that actually do watch things being done but wouldn't do them in real life. They mostly also have fantasized about themselves doing it thought they wouldn't do it irl...

    Does that make sense?

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  • End yourself you fucking paedophile.

    [Edit] this was in response to Lemblue saying he has sexual fantasies about his stepdaughters ever since they were 5 and 7. He was describing how they entice him and crap.

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    • You are fucking crazy!!!! And you obviously have no life😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

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      • Hey, I'm not the one sexually fantasizing about children. You are.

        I noticed you removed the comment, but that won't remove your sick fantasies.

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        • Everyone is free to think what they want. Thoughts never hurt anyone. We can’t help who we are attracted to! Trust me you would be too.

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  • The whole point of fantasies is that you can do anything, anywhere, with anyone. As long as it stays a fantasy, it hurts no-one.

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  • Family roleplay

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  • Yes. For me it is eating dirty ass, being ass raped and drinking someones piss.

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  • Normal for sure! I often fantasize about being physically abused to near death. Do I want that, no! (Although sometimes I cut the tops of my knuckles to satisfy a need for pain)

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  • Be more specific please. What type of fantasies are we talking here?

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