Is it normal to fall so easily for almost everyone i meet?

So basically, it's really easy for me to fall for someone. In fact, i currently have strong feelings on most of the people i know (from friends/colleagues to teachers and some relatives). I can't really talk about it with my friends since they're the same ones i have feelings for and would probably start suspecting. I fall for both guys and girls and don't seem to have boundaries in love. I'm afraid that all these 'likings' might lead me to never being able to fall seriously in love. Or maybe, i just seriously fall very easily in love (which actually makes me sound like a cheap/easy girl).
This is all very troubling since i'm a rather popular, attractive and academically successful 12th grade student who should actually have everything needed to lead a normal life, possibly with a single love interest and whatever a girl my age would look for. Still, these ridiculous loves of mine always keep me from getting closer to both my friends and loved ones and obviously, i don't feel satisfied with myself.

Is It Normal?
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  • Level 1 - Finding someone attractive.
    Level 2 - Developing a crush - toying with the idea of a relationship.
    Level 3 - Actively seeking and desiring a relationship.
    Where are you? It sounds like you're level 2 with many people. I certainly wouldn't call it healthy or normal, but so long as 3 isn't thrown about wildly, I think you have a valid chance at a committed monogamous relationship.

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  • Can anybody find me somebody to love?
    Each morning I get up I die a little
    Can barely stand on my feet
    Take a look in the mirror and cry
    Lord what you're doing to me
    I have spent all my years in believing you
    But I just can't get no relief,
    Lord!
    Somebody, somebody
    Can anybody find me somebody to love?

    I work hard every day of my life
    I work till I ache my bones
    At the end I take home my hard earned pay all on my own -
    I get down on my knees
    And I start to pray
    Till the tears run down from my eyes
    Lord - somebody - somebody
    Can anybody find me - somebody to love?

    (He works hard)

    Everyday - I try and I try and I try -
    But everybody wants to put me down
    They say I'm goin' crazy
    They say I got a lot of water in my brain
    Got no common sense
    I got nobody left to believe
    Yeah - yeah yeah yeah

    Oh Lord
    Somebody - somebody
    Can anybody find me somebody to love?

    Got no feel, I got no rhythm
    I just keep losing my beat
    I'm ok, I'm alright
    Ain't gonna face no defeat
    I just gotta get out of this prison cell
    Someday I'm gonna be free, Lord!

    Find me somebody to love
    Can anybody find me somebody to love?

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  • It's nice to meet you

    this is where you say I love you baby .

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  • I'm most likely at level 2 with most of them, though there are also a few with whom i'm at level 3, since they're probably my oldest crushes with whom i eventually tried to seek a relationship. I also seem to feel the same way (deep feelings) about all of these 'level 3' people. So, if i were to start a relationship with one of them, i'd still chase after the others.

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    • :O That can't be good! I don't know. Do you want a monogamous relationship? Because I think you should stay away if you're still going to want others.

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      • Well, the thing is i do want a monogamous and healthy relationship but at the same time i just think that'd be unfair to the person i'm with, since i'll always be thinking about other people just as much as i'll think about him/her

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