Is it normal to fall in love with two men at the same time?

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Please, before you go calling me mean names, understand that I didn't mean for any of this. So it all started with my boyfriend, he and I broke up for a few weeks and within that few weeks I was suffering extreme depression and couldn't eat. I found comfort in a friend of mine. He was only my friend but as time went on we began to hang out often and were almost inseparable but still only treated each other as friends. As I began to learn new things about him i found my self liking him but i pushed these feelings away because I was still depressed from my break up and wasn't doing well. I'm extremely guilty about this even though my friend and i are still just friends. I love him and I love my boyfriend but if my boyfriend found out i was still talking to h=my friend he would leave me and i don't want to lose either of them. they are so special to me. Is there anyone out there who has had this problem? is this like a malfunction in my brain or something???

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  • Ratmanwakes
    6 years ago

    You talk too much so who gives a fuck. Shut the fuck up! You are just too annoying. Go away.

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    • Loveston
      6 years ago

      That not helping are you her boyfriend or something sorry im just curious you looks annoying too......

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  • slave1
    6 years ago

    Update I guess: I'm Dating the guy that was my friend.. Turns out our chemistry was a lot more than I thought and he and I are very happy. My now, ex boyfriend is having a lot of trouble with the break up though..

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  • Loveston
    6 years ago

    Choose wisely make sure you choose the right one......only yourself know who deserve more .....nothing is impossible. ?...right...

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  • Jccruz
    6 years ago

    It's ok I just have to c who u really wanna be with...i know u and ur boyfriend broke up but If the other guy is serious bout u u should stay with him...dont think about sex...that is extra think about companionship and love

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    • slave1
      6 years ago

      So i broke up with my boyfriend and now im with the other guy. he's a sweet heart and is really making life and the break up easy on me. but my now-ex is extremely unhappy and wont eat or sleep and im worried... i dont wanna hurt either of these men so you can see how this is also a difficult thing. my life is just full of drama this year, it's insane!!!! (sorry for bad grammar it's late and i dont worry about grammar unless im typing for work and school)

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      • Analandy
        6 years ago

        Why did you break up with the ex boyfriend if you loved him. If his lack of appetite and inability to sleep is bothering you he will get over it. If you realized your in love with him after the break up you leaped before you looked. Pick one and move on down the road of life with whichever one makes you tingle and happy. And don't let the ex's issues cloud your judgement it takes two hearts to beat as one to make a successful relationship.

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        • slave1
          6 years ago

          I broke up with him because it was long distance and I just lost the connection we once had. The love didn't feel the same, it was full of routine and so I lost interest. Of course i do still love him but in a different way. the one who makes me "tingle and happy" is the other guy, the one I'm with now. my ex is moving on, it's a bitter sweet thing but it's gotta happen. I got with my current boyfriend after my break up with my ex because I loved him more and in a different way. I've never connected with my current boyfriend the way i have with anyone else. sounds super dorky but w.e. o conclude, I've finally chosen someone and I feel very confident in my choice.

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