Is it normal to end friendships frequently throughout your life
I probably only have 2 friends. All the others, I have cut off. The first one was a radical girl who was crazy about politics and liked to argue with everyone about her views. She got angry at me for expressing mine and unfriended me. We weren't just Internet friends and I knew her for about 7 years. Second friend just stopped talking to me after high school and was a constant flake and I got mad at him and we don't talk anymore. Third friend was also a flake and always bailed on plans with me literally last minute. I always planned my day around her and she was never reliable and it upset me so much I told her how I felt and we don't hang out anymore. The other friends were mostly my bfs friends but I cut ties with them because when my house was destroyed, they never contacted me and they didn't ever contact me when my bf was away on business either so I was like "why waste every other weekend hanging out with these people") is my definition of what a friend should be just too crazy? It's like I'm a one-sided friendship magnet and I long so badly just to meet people who really love me and value me. How hard can it be?