Is it normal to dislike the thought of people being sexually attracted to me?

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I am asexual (demisexual) so I don't know what sexual attraction feels like, but from what I have read about it I think I have a moderate understanding of it. I dislike the thought of people being sexually attracted to my body, even though I do like my body. However, I don't dislike people who do feel sexual attraction and I wouldn't be angry with anyone for being sexually attracted to me, they wouldn't do anything wrong.

Does that make any sense?

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    I am the same way.

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  • flawdagirl
    9 years ago

    to answer your question, it is not normal. But that doesn't mean it is wrong.

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  • green_boogers
    9 years ago

    It's all fine. But remember that when you start to think most people are sexual creeps, the world will think that you're a non-sexual creep.

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  • tripw7
    9 years ago

    I think your position is very normal. You have probably not had the experience of knowing that someone was sexually attracted to you, so you are on uncharted waters so to speak.
    I would hold your final opinion until someone in some way identifies themselves as being attracted to you, whether of the same sex or the opposite sex.
    You will have a better understanding maybe if you are asexual or just exactly where you stand. Good luck.

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  • AJMClassof2014
    9 years ago

    I was getting close to becoming asexual because almost every guy who would talk to me was always just looking for sex

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Asexuality is not a choice.

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