Is it normal to daydream about my boyfriend eating, ahem, my cupcake alot? :)

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Okay so me and my boyfriend have recently gone into a long distance relationship. We've been together 4 months now. We plan on not doing the pre-marital oodelies. I recently spent a couple weeks at his place- we spent alot of time together(no sex btw). The thing is ever since I've come back home I literally daydream about him eating me out like its the best tasting thing ever and telling me how good it is! And I don't know why I constantly think about it when i first wake up in the morning, throughout the day, then when I go to bed. I feel so bad because I'm not supposed to think about things like that especially with my christian upbringing. Is there something wrong with me? =(

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  • shadow21
    11 years ago | pl

    There is nothing wrong with desiring sex, even if you are Christian. Believe it or not you are a human being first and it is normal for us to desire something which is natural. As far as thinking about it constantly, especially if you aren't, ahem, partaking in any releases, you are going to think about it a lot. God didn't give a female a "cupcake" and a man a (since we're going with food) cannoli without reason. And it isn't a sin for a man and a woman to partake in these events outside wedlock (but that is your own choice). He's probably more embarrassed you're referring to his creation as a cupcake.

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    • [Old Memory]
      11 years ago

      Cupcake is just a romantic/cute pet name. I searched between the spectrum of vagina and cumhole. Cupcake was the best because we do exchange pet names for our anatomical parts. In part, we have inside jokes about them as well. The humor is part of what keeps our virginal minded (love)spark alive. haha. You have a point though. Thanks! =)

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  • Loh
    11 years ago | pl

    Just tell him you want him to eat your vagina up. It's not a sin since it's not really fucking it's foreplay..His delicious tongue is not going to hurt you ;). DO IT DO IT!

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    • [Old Memory]
      11 years ago

      lol

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  • russellnb
    11 years ago | pl

    I dn't see a problem. If I had a cupcake i would want the icing licked off it all day long.

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    • [Old Memory]
      11 years ago

      I concur.

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  • dappled
    11 years ago

    You, uhhh, don't happen to have an older sister, do you?

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  • farkelu
    11 years ago

    I find it exciting that you think about it and I also like the taste of a "fresh" cupcake ;-) are you really in Carmel?

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    • [Old Memory]
      11 years ago

      The reason for the screen name is because my skin is a caramel color.

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  • kaki
    11 years ago

    nothin is wrong with u. u just want him to eat u out. nothin is wrong.

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    • [Old Memory]
      11 years ago

      thanks Kaki

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    I wish I could eat your pussy. I'm addicted to the taste of it its so nice, especially when girls cum. Is yours hairy?

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    • [Old Memory]
      11 years ago

      You like the way it tastes? Huh..interesting. I've never heard heard of someone liking the taste of a girls cupcake. hehe. I would be way too scared to let anyone wonder into my nether regions anyways. And, no mine isn't hairy. Sorry buddy.

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      • [Old Memory]
        11 years ago

        Yeh I love it lol, I normally lick my girlfriends clit untill she cums then I spread her pussy and slide my tounge in really deep and lick out all of her cum :p i don't see what's not to like :)

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        • BrendioEEE
          11 years ago

          alot of things

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      • [Old Memory]
        11 years ago

        Btw how old are you?

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  • sweeie
    11 years ago

    It's perfectly normal; you're horny, lol we all are at times

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  • Ibelievethis
    11 years ago

    Well it's only human nature to have desires. Oral sex is amasing and can give the most beautiful orgasms for both sexes . I love the name cupcake B.T.W. I call mine "My equipment" xx

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  • noemimi93
    11 years ago

    It's normal to feel this way. If you have the desire to get eaten out then go for it. Honestly, I love to get eaten out it feels amazing. Just saying

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  • JUJU<3
    10 years ago

    All of you guys are really shallow, so just shut the hell up. PLEASE!!!!! Yes it's very normal girl don't freak out when you feel that way. And the rest of you go get killed in the hunger games would you. Or better yet go die in a hole. And rot. I hate you with a burning passion.

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  • quentari
    11 years ago

    perfectly normal to think about these things :) if you don't want to act on them, that's fine. But it's definitely normal to have the urge :)

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  • Mason334
    11 years ago

    What's creapy she loves being called cupcake so titles disturbing to me

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  • ubiquitous_joe
    11 years ago

    oh dear. of course it's normal. Besides, what the hell did jesus know about long distance relationships? Somebody writes down a buncha shit and 1800 years later girls feel guilty about oral sex fantasies. I hope you're a troll. Otherwise, what's the world coming to? or, I guess in your case, NOT coming to?

    BTW I think putting a smiley face at the end of your question implies you know damn well there's nothing wrong with it. :)

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    • [Old Memory]
      11 years ago

      it's not smiling..

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      • ubiquitous_joe
        11 years ago

        The one at the end of the Title, not the one at the end of the body.

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        • [Old Memory]
          11 years ago

          I couldn't help notice your strong opinion above the rest. I wish I was a troll as to avoid such a bashful question. However, my mind comes to an ease with the answers and opinions i cannot come up with myself, or, lack there of, from those that dwell among me. I'm not even sure myself if i actually want it to be done. I almost sound like i'm contradicting myself, but the act almost sounds repulsive to do(or give). Oh, what is a girl to do?

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          • ubiquitous_joe
            11 years ago

            Oh, I didn't realize you were the poster. Look, sex can be a gross, loveless, power-driven, brutal thing between two animals that will never reflect on the dumb monotony of their desire. Or it can be like sunsets exploding inside love-prisms. Or in between. Some of it is who you have it with and how and why. A lot of it is what you bring to the table.

            I don't think religions have a monopoly on making people feel weird about sex, but they do sometimes make you feel guilty for normal desires in a way that is not helpful.

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  • fjo5183
    11 years ago

    I'm not sure it's the best tasting thing out there, but I'll be the judge.

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  • percyboy90
    11 years ago

    What isn't normal is referring to your vagina as your cupcake. Grow up loser.

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    • [Old Memory]
      11 years ago

      Yeah because your screen name is much better..

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  • la_uva_mojada
    11 years ago

    I think that the 'no sex until marriage' is an outdated philosophy. If I had to make a modern standard, it would have to be to not sleep with someone you don't care about. I think that the 'no sex until marriage' stems from primitive times where there wasn't any birth control, and obviously you don't want to conceive a child with someone that is just a fling. So.. to answer your question, I'd say, as long as your bf is a decent guy, you have feelings for eachother and are responsible about it, then go for it.

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  • mutherzmilk
    11 years ago

    Your not alone, Religion messes up allot of young people with normal feelings and thoughts. Your horny and that's that. If you gotta do it, be safe and do it to get it out of your system. Some people are just hornier than others.

    Nothing wrong with having safe sex. Nothing!!. Religious parents are stupid.
    If there was a god do you really think he'd give a shit who eats you out, or even who you fuck?. If he did create you , than Id say its pretty fucked up how he messes with people by giving them desires to fuck but cant. Religion is just a way to control everything you do even think!! Anyways.

    Just get it on, trust me it will be great. Its building up inside you and you'll probably cum before you panties come off.
    Just don't get knocked up or anything stupid like that.

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    • [Old Memory]
      11 years ago

      are you a girl?

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  • BlueAlice
    11 years ago

    Absolutely normal. I personally don't believe that sex before marriage is a sin, but I realise your upbringing has influenced you to think that, and I like that you don't - seem to! - preach about how evil it is.

    You can't help your hormones. You're a human being first ofall and we were given libido and free will. I agree with shadow21's comment pretty much word for word.

    Also, I have finally come across a name for my bits that doesn't sound too vile or crass!

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    • [Old Memory]
      11 years ago

      Yeah sex is a beautiful experience two people share with eachother. It's a natural instinct and gift embedded within all of us. Why the heck would it feel as good as people say it does?! haha I really cringe when I've heard hate stories about sex or making love, etc. I really believe true Christian upbringing should not teach hate in any aspect. Anways, i'm curious to know your new found name for you bits as well(if you care to share of course). Thanks for the input =)

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      • BlueAlice
        11 years ago

        Clue... it's in the story

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  • Nola.Soul.Jah
    11 years ago

    No . Stop being so narrowed minded , its perfectly normal

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    • Catalepsi
      11 years ago

      Oodelies?

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  • 362led
    11 years ago

    I meant ya

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  • zackattack
    11 years ago

    Of course it's normal. Hormones kick in. Something you should really try if you haven't already is masturbating. Do you do that? I mean it would feel good without all the awkwardness.

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    • [Old Memory]
      11 years ago

      Umm, is it weird that I don't really think i'd find pleasure in that? 1) my fingers are small 2) the thought of just procreating like i'm some kinda a-sexual being ain't that much fun without someone to do it for me. Just say'n. Other than that, thanks for the tip! ;D

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      • zackattack
        11 years ago

        You're not pro-creating. You're just touching something that feels good. Sex will be much more fun if you learn what you like down there. I guarantee your boyfriend does it, and the vast majority of girls do.

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  • That_guy1776
    11 years ago

    There's nothing wrong with that at all. You're just horny. It's understandable that you would dream about it, especially when you're strongly attracted to that person.

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  • aminormal321
    11 years ago

    It's definitely normal. Quite honestly I think you should bring up the fact you're interested in having sex and being eaten out. You should do it when you're ready, and from the looks of it, it seems like you are.

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    • [Old Memory]
      11 years ago

      I wouldn't even know how to start that conversation only because i've always planned on saving it until marriage. Is eating out considered having sex?? Anyways, I'd still be too scared to have someone do that to me anyways..

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      • aminormal321
        11 years ago

        Having a guy eat you out isn't sex. It's a sexual act, but it's not sex. As for the nerves, well, maybe get more comfortable with him. Bring up the subject without hinting that you want it, than ask him what he wants. Then you can hint that you want it. If it does happen you won't be nervous as long as you two have a really strong connection.

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        • [Old Memory]
          11 years ago

          You have a good point on the strong connection part.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    And, I found myself liking to cook for him breakfast lunch and dinner just so I can see him eat it. I would prepare the best tasting food I could think of. I wouldn't stare.(that's creepy) lol But, I'd take a look at him while he'd eat the food and eat he would just take it into his mouth like it was the best tasting thing he'd ever put his mouth on. It would get me so excited..I wanted to be those strawberry pancakes! haha

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  • JustinBiebsFan#1
    11 years ago

    there is something wrong with you, you dont put out

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    • BlueAlice
      11 years ago

      HAHA, YOU'RE A BARLOW GIRL!

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      • Ibelievethis
        11 years ago

        What's a barlow girl. xx

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      • BrendioEEE
        11 years ago

        Is that all you do you goddamn bi sexual call people barlow boys & girls its probably the stupidest fucking thing I have ever heard I looked it up that one time you called me it & do you seriously fucking think that anyone on this bloody site is like that ? I mean for real.

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        • *~ThePurplePixie~*
          11 years ago

          What are barlow girls and boys?

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          • BrendioEEE
            11 years ago

            Exactly I bet if she or I called anyone (which I won't) on this site a Barlow Boy or Girl chances you or anyone else won't know wtf it is. That girl blue alice...just wow she needs to learn how to at least put some relevance in her stupid insults. Unfortunately I can't remember the site where I found what it ment so just google it.

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