Is it normal to date someone online and not see them irl for over a year

My current girlfriend asked me out online over a year ago. We live less than an hour away from each other, yet we never have actually met up. We chatted over discord almost every day for the first 8 months but lately we have both been really busy with school and work. Every Tuesday I go to college on a campus that is literally less than 15 minutes from her house, yet we have never organized an actual date.

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  • 309uf2o38yf

    If you lived in different countries, it would be normal.

    If she's really only 15 minutes away, you guys are both really weird.

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  • JD777

    She's probably a hairy, 350 pound, 36 year old man living in his parents basement and doesn't want to meet. But, yeah, normal for these days.

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    • mOsTnOrMAlPersanEVEr22782xD

      I don't think we would be together for that long with no physical interaction if she was a catfish. xD

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      • JD777

        I’m not sure you understand what “together” actually means.

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  • leggs91200

    Millenianls' daily lives are pretty much lived over their cell phones these days so unfortunately, it is kind if normal.

    I don't know, I just kind of feel for the young adults today. They have no concept of what having a life is about. They think it is an app or a page on social media.

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  • irishstepgal

    I wouldn't say its normal or typical but there's nothing wrong with that!

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  • elenamish

    as long as it makes you happy, who cares

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  • libertybell

    If you haven't met yet, she isn't your girlfriend.

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  • BlackCandle

    Meet them,have a talk before you actually declare someone a girlfriend or boyfriend. Do you know how different we are online compared to face to face?

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  • RoseIsabella

    Have ya'll ever video chatted?

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    • mOsTnOrMAlPersanEVEr22782xD

      No xD

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      • RoseIsabella

        How do you know you aren't being catfished?

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