IIN to be virgin at 25

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  • I think it's normal and completely okay to be a virgin at any age. I'm almost 27 and one, myself (though I'm asexual like GuvnorsOtherWoman). It may be less common as you get older, but that doesn't mean there's anything wrong with it. I believe that losing one's virginity is a very personal decision and should only be done if and when a person feels ready and comfortable. It's not a race, not something to be compared to others', and is also nobody's business but your own.

    Personally, I think it's best not to put too much pressure on yourself, rush anything, or set a time limit for yourself if you are looking for a quality, lasting relationship. I've seen a lot of people do this (including several friends and family members) and it has never ended well, as they've made poor decisions because they wanted to be in a relationship by a certain time frame and tried to fit a round peg into a square hole as a result. Something like this is not something you can force; it requires meeting the right person and getting to know them, which might take more time than you'd like for it to. If it's worth it to you, it's worth the extra time it may take, however.

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