Is it normal to be too lazy to try and find/date/have sex with a woman?

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Let's be honest, life can be pretty hectic, especially in times like today. I work a hard manual labor job, and am currently trying to find a second one, just in order to pay off a car, the outrageous monthly insurance payment that comes with said car, cell phone, and other assorted bills. Plus I am attempting to go back to school, and move into an apartment with friends. When I'm not working or relaxing playin some vidya, I'm usually hanging out with friends. While that may not be as much as what some are used to, it manages to keep me pretty damn busy. And in all this, when I think about going out and trying to meet a girl, romance her, go through all the rigamarole that comes with a relationship, it all just seems like an enormous pain.

To be fair, I've had a rocky history with relationships, so that certainly plays a part. But honestly when it comes to sexual gratification, I don't see the point in going out to find a girl, spend a crap load of time working through her various defenses to have sex and maybe start a relationship when I can just wank at home just about as quick as I want and get on with whatever I'm doing. And sure it can be a bit lonely when I actually take the time to sit and think about it, but I usually avoid that kind of stuff.

TL;DR is it normal to find the idea of putting in time and effort to get laid/maybe find a girlfriend, when I can just fap at home quick and easy, tedious and unnecessary?

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72% Normal
Based on 99 votes (71 yes)
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  • Inkla
    10 years ago

    I'm a girl but from what you've said, your life seems busy enough already to worry about an optional thing. Some people try too hard and get nowhere when they could be spending their time doing more valuable things. You will probably meet someone eventually without even trying like if you do go back to school for example, I wouldnt worry at the moment :)

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    • walterscott
      10 years ago

      I agree. When you get back in school get in top physical health then you will meet someone very nice. Eat clean and be super confident. Women will come to you easily.

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    • BobbyFord
      10 years ago

      Thanks for the positivity :)

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  • Goomats
    10 years ago

    You're the reason women hate men.

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  • Unimportant
    10 years ago

    I agree, you gotta take care of your financial situation first before you can go out and purchase a high-quality woman.

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  • tripw7
    10 years ago

    You have your priorities correct. You don't need the hassle with the opposite sex at the moment. You go ahead and get your car paid off and have some money in the bank and feel good about your progress in life.......Good luck

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  • Rajang
    10 years ago

    Dude your fine. Get your shit together before you try to find yourself a woman. You'll have a hard time try to find sex while this much work to do.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    10 years ago

    Normal however I wouldn't consider you "lazy" after reading your story.

    It sounds like you're focused on getting your debts paid and managing your bills. It's not really surprising that when you're not working you don't really feel like spending time and energy into a relationship.

    There's nothing wrong in getting your finances in order first

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  • CreativeThinker
    10 years ago

    I'm not busy at all for last two years but I'm not dating Either I'm too lazy or its too hard for me to start it over and over again........

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    • BobbyFord
      10 years ago

      Yeah it can be rough

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