I made sure to masturbate so I was used to some penetration before having sex we also always ave a TON of foreplay which is fun anyway. Maybe get him to go down on you before? That's what I did the first time and it was a weird feeling since I'd never had sex before but sex should NEVER hurt. It's a myth that your hymen is supposed to break it's supposed to gently stretch out of the way and has not nerves in it so when it does stretch you can't feel it anyway. Pain and even bleeding are cause when the vaginal muscles are tensed and the friction causes damage to the muscles and causes the tissue inside your vagina to get kind of scraped and bleed. The only awkward thing was when I got excited and squeezed my muscles down there and he was like"It feels like a fist is clamped out me???!!!!" I thought he'd be expecting that ...
If you are really concerned you should talk to your doctor otherwise use lube and have AT LEAST 15 minutes of foreplay!
You have to be aroused for sex to work!!!!!! A vagina is similar to a penis in that it has to fill with blood and get aroused before sex. Having sex before you are aroused is like trying to have sex with a flaccid penis it doesn't work! All vaginas are very compact and shallow when they are not aroused, but as you get aroused your vagina fills with blood causing the muscles to swell up and making your vagina actually extend a bit deeper. So essentially if you try to have sex before aroused you are trying to stick like 6 inches into 3 inches because your vagina has not become deeper yet! It's really bad so make sure you are not just calm but aroused before trying to have sex.
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I made sure to masturbate so I was used to some penetration before having sex we also always ave a TON of foreplay which is fun anyway. Maybe get him to go down on you before? That's what I did the first time and it was a weird feeling since I'd never had sex before but sex should NEVER hurt. It's a myth that your hymen is supposed to break it's supposed to gently stretch out of the way and has not nerves in it so when it does stretch you can't feel it anyway. Pain and even bleeding are cause when the vaginal muscles are tensed and the friction causes damage to the muscles and causes the tissue inside your vagina to get kind of scraped and bleed. The only awkward thing was when I got excited and squeezed my muscles down there and he was like"It feels like a fist is clamped out me???!!!!" I thought he'd be expecting that ...
If you are really concerned you should talk to your doctor otherwise use lube and have AT LEAST 15 minutes of foreplay!
You have to be aroused for sex to work!!!!!! A vagina is similar to a penis in that it has to fill with blood and get aroused before sex. Having sex before you are aroused is like trying to have sex with a flaccid penis it doesn't work! All vaginas are very compact and shallow when they are not aroused, but as you get aroused your vagina fills with blood causing the muscles to swell up and making your vagina actually extend a bit deeper. So essentially if you try to have sex before aroused you are trying to stick like 6 inches into 3 inches because your vagina has not become deeper yet! It's really bad so make sure you are not just calm but aroused before trying to have sex.