So, I don't know how to start this.
There are a couple answers here.
I'll start from the least likely option.
1.Medical condition. (highly doubt it)
However, if what I say below doesn't change anything, then consult your gyno or any doctor.
2.You don't know your body.
I don't know your age, or how much sexual experience you've had, but it sounds like you are not very comfortable with the idea of sex. I suggest you find some alone time and a door that locks, (preferably your room) light some candles if you like and put on some porn that turns you on.
You can use your fingers or a toy, and simply get to know your sexual preferences, get to know your body and things that feel good. Try loosening and tightening your vaginal wall.
Technically, once you start getting turned on by the porn, you should automatically loosen and feel the way that it should feel when he tries to have sex with you.
3.He is not doing foreplay
Foreplay is a HUGE part for women.
We need the attraction before, we need to be turned on so that we can get wet, or else it will be extremely painful and not enjoyable for either person.
Bring up the fact that you want him to do certain things to turn you on,
Eating you out would help, it would moisten it down there and hopefully get your engines running as well. Let him know that it needs to be a group effort to get you where you need to be
4.A little mix of everything stated above,
either way you need to talk to your partner and let him know these issues.
Or else you can't solve them.
You need to know how to turn yourself on, and he needs to be able to do the same.
IIN to be this tight?
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So, I don't know how to start this.
There are a couple answers here.
I'll start from the least likely option.
1.Medical condition. (highly doubt it)
However, if what I say below doesn't change anything, then consult your gyno or any doctor.
2.You don't know your body.
I don't know your age, or how much sexual experience you've had, but it sounds like you are not very comfortable with the idea of sex. I suggest you find some alone time and a door that locks, (preferably your room) light some candles if you like and put on some porn that turns you on.
You can use your fingers or a toy, and simply get to know your sexual preferences, get to know your body and things that feel good. Try loosening and tightening your vaginal wall.
Technically, once you start getting turned on by the porn, you should automatically loosen and feel the way that it should feel when he tries to have sex with you.
3.He is not doing foreplay
Foreplay is a HUGE part for women.
We need the attraction before, we need to be turned on so that we can get wet, or else it will be extremely painful and not enjoyable for either person.
Bring up the fact that you want him to do certain things to turn you on,
Eating you out would help, it would moisten it down there and hopefully get your engines running as well. Let him know that it needs to be a group effort to get you where you need to be
4.A little mix of everything stated above,
either way you need to talk to your partner and let him know these issues.
Or else you can't solve them.
You need to know how to turn yourself on, and he needs to be able to do the same.
Good luck