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I am a cold person. My rules:
1. Never trust anyone
2. Never open yourself up to anyone
3. Always be prepared to fight physically.
Is this just because as a kid I had no friends,,and grew up with martial arts.
I think a lot of people are like this. When you're a kid, the world seems like a safe place. However, as you mature the world looks grim and full of malice. Not everybody in this world is going to hurt you. There are a few good people in this world.
Trust is not one of my stronger qualities so I completely understand #1. I really do not converse with most people so #2 is not an issue. #3 is the one to be careful of, as bloodborne pathogens are a big concern. I would not want to get something like HIV or Hepatitis, especially not from some random physical altercation with an asshole.
1. Never trust anyone?
What about a doctor saving your life or helping in your giving birth?
Oh you don't mean everyone!
2. Never open yourself up to anyone?
What about your love ones, or your family, I hope you don't just bottle it in until you explode?
Oh you don't mean everyone!
3. Always be prepared to fight physically?
Would this also be the case in a police station or court? What about at a kindergarten? I'm sure the little kids would love to scream in horror at you?
Oh you don't mean everywhere!
So you mean in certain situations that call for this type of behaviour? OH, we are all like that, no problem.
A doctor yelled at me when I was 6 because I couldn't tell him if my glands in my neck were swollen, or if I had previously had gill and barreys
Wigzsplit,you will never understand what to do till your 5th Dan black belt,like me
Martial art helps,it dosent matter what the use you can beat them,it also introduces focus,and precipitation
Precipitation?!
I didn't know you could make it rain ;o) Kidding you!
I honestly treat each new person in my life as a new genuine person, although I've been 'bitten' quite a few times. But, I don't want to change - I couldn't be bothered psychoanalysing everyone I have to deal with.
Most physical fighting is done because people are too weak to control their own emotions.
You should really take a psychology class and learn more about yourself and why you're living everyday with your defenses up.
How does any of that make youa "cold" person?
No, it doesn't make you a cold person.
Hahaha in the real world martial arts will not stop you from getting twated.
Martial arts are lame....in a real fight. Awwww, shit, he didn't come at me with his left fist and right foot???? Crap, what do I do now???
I follow #1 and #2, but not #3 (I'm a lover).
I learned those rules the hard way. :(
It's not always good to be that way though. I've learned that the hard way too.
My bf is like that. He's a bit softer now cause of me, but it's normal for people like him.
His #1 rule is also to never trust anyone.