Is it normal to be so bothered by this?

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I feel like a shitty person for feeling this way but i need to talk about it or i will drive myself mad.

Some background i grew up in a very conservative catholic family. Even if my friends were saying how they would do dirty things to some girl in school or celebrity i wasnt a fan of that kinda talk but thats probably cause i had a little sister and wondered what if someone talked about her like that. Anyways I didnt have sex until i was 19 which is later than any person i knew. So you can see i was pretty sheltered today I am 23 i am not really religious anymore i watch porn and can talk to any one guy or girl about any topic but maybe my upbringing is coming back to haunt me i dont know

My gf right now likes a few songs that have very sexual and dirty lyrics and that is really weird. They are nothing disturbing just explicit stuff that you wouldnt let a kid hear but fact she likes them makes me uncomfortable and maybe even insecure. I dont know why. I start overthinking stupid stuff like maybe shes cheating on me or she lied about her past. I dont know why this is happening. My last gf was so closed up and i wanted her to tell me what she liked well this one is the opposite of that and i am struggling to handle it. Maybe its because we are only together for a couple of months and it will be gone when we have sex but until then its annoying as hell. Its probably not normal but anyone have any advice or tips please

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  • Annie25
    6 years ago

    You are 23 and an adult I hope you know that. Your gf is not a kid so stop thinking about her in that way. Yeah sure some explicit songs should be kept away from kids but dude thats your girlfriend and not a kid. Its PERFECTLY normal for people to like explicit songs. After all its just a song.

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