I think it's all about how you are looking at it. You are assuming he is rejecting you, but try to think of one of the many other reasons why he doesn't want to hang out.. maybe he's busy, or not feeling great, or has a family commitment, or has to share his time between you and other friends? If he's got a circle of friends other than you, you should try and get him to introduce you to them, there are bound to be other people he knows who have some of the the same things in common. Hopefully you'll find your social network gradually expanding and you'll feel less "attached" to certain people.
You read my mind for the most part. I went through a similar stage with a friend of mine. He's probably not trying to reject you, he just has other friends. It's fine to be attached, just not to the point of obsession. One of those times when you hang out, just be honest with him and tell him how you feel. If he can't be friends with you because of that then he's not really a friend.
IIN to be sick of having a single friend to the point of evasiveness?
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I think it's all about how you are looking at it. You are assuming he is rejecting you, but try to think of one of the many other reasons why he doesn't want to hang out.. maybe he's busy, or not feeling great, or has a family commitment, or has to share his time between you and other friends? If he's got a circle of friends other than you, you should try and get him to introduce you to them, there are bound to be other people he knows who have some of the the same things in common. Hopefully you'll find your social network gradually expanding and you'll feel less "attached" to certain people.
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You read my mind for the most part. I went through a similar stage with a friend of mine. He's probably not trying to reject you, he just has other friends. It's fine to be attached, just not to the point of obsession. One of those times when you hang out, just be honest with him and tell him how you feel. If he can't be friends with you because of that then he's not really a friend.