Is it normal to be sexually attracted to a friend you don't really like?

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So I'm a 17 year old virgin from a place where the age of consent is 16. While I'm not too bothered about sex or anything of that magnitude, I for some reason find one of my female friends sexually attractive. She annoys me to a large extent which may make me seem shallow but it's also very taboo for me to find someone attractive in that way. Is this normal? If so or not, how can I deal with this?

Thanks.

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  • farkelu
    10 years ago

    Yes, it's called "passive agressive"

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  • fromthatshow
    10 years ago

    Normal for sure. If you've got a moral issue with it then just be upfront about it. Don't lead her on into thinking you want something long term.

    I would have sex with a girl whom I found physically attractive but wasn't crazy about her personality, but I wouldn't lie and tell her I thought she was super interesting in order to sleep with her. There's nothing disgraceful about that as long as you're honest.

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  • Ozzy
    10 years ago

    I doubt that it has anything with her being your friend... she is just the nearest girl u can get and thats why u wanna bang her

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    • justcuriousaboutthings
      10 years ago

      That was very blunt lol. I have other female friends though which is the thing.

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  • xgrimesx
    10 years ago

    I'm 22 now and I have found myself attracted to a lot of my girl friends throughout the years, it probably started when I was 15. I started experimenting with this girl who was a kinda sorta close friend, I never thought she was smart or had a great personality, she was kind of a bitch but for some reason I wanted to have sex with her. I'm bisexual but I couldn't see myself being in a relationship with a girl. When I do get these urges to be with a girl, I either fantasize about it for weeks and masturbate a lot or I have to call up one of my girls ;) it is totally normal to have those urges. Masturbate about it or make it happen :)

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  • beamer
    10 years ago

    it is normal. i had a female friend who was annoying and blunt and sometimes i just wanted to punch her lol. yet i liked her so much for some reasons.

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  • ThousandPoundsOfGanja
    10 years ago

    Meh, there's a chick that I hang out with who's got nice tits, and a great ass, and a great personality but a meh at best face, I'd fuck her but I wouldn't date her while she said she'd date me but I'd have to wait a while for sex... I didn't feel like waiting.

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  • AnonJoe
    10 years ago

    I use to be super turned on by friends who were annoying. not sure why.

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  • bluelegs
    10 years ago

    I think you are attracted to girls and ready to experiment.

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    • justcuriousaboutthings
      10 years ago

      I've always been straight. I just never had true sexual feelings towards a person in my life. I am in love with someone else though but for other reasons.

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    • Kilroy4
      10 years ago

      Just be nice to her for a while and go for it, you might even get laid.

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      • justcuriousaboutthings
        10 years ago

        I'd rather not play with her feelings like that. If I find her annoying, then I don't see why I just should go for it. It wouldn't feel right.

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