Is it normal to be self-conscious over testicular cancer scar

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I have a very rough wide scar from up the side of my sack that curves horizontal along my waist band. I had a very butchered tumor removal after being diagnosed with testicular cancer at 16. I'm 22 now and am left with a very ugly scar, not a thin white scar, it's wide and has the stringy stretch mark texture, and no hair grows on it. Also I'm minus one nut now (I got an implant so I'm not lopsided)

I'm super self conscious about my scar and usually fuck or get sucked off with my boxers still on to avoid the awkward conversation about it. Also I can't give the necessary... payload... due to being one man down.

Am I being reasonable? How would you react to a very ugly scar down with the intimates?

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  • SmokeEverything
    7 years ago

    Scars are cool. Be proud of it. Its a sign of what you survived, or if you think you can invent a scarier story behind it you can. Real survivors have scars.

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    • McBean
      7 years ago

      I have a visible scar on my neck and women hate it. It is hard not to be ashamed.

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  • Nucker
    6 years ago

    I am female. Have 2 prominent scars. One in the groin is 8" long, thick, dark, and and 1/2" wide. The other is 40+" and runs from under my breast to under my arm and around to the top of my angel wing. Open heart surgery, 1964. But... its never been an issue. Ever. Relax. You are unique.

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  • chubbypuppy
    6 years ago

    My partner has a big scar on their sack because of an accident and I dont mind at all, its just something unique to them.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    7 years ago

    The main surgical scar is just very bulky, about 8 inches long, 2 inches wide at its widest, and paper thin scar tissue. The tears branch off like a pine tree at the lengths of 1-3 inches

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    7 years ago

    You're very lucky, my stitches ripped and tore a dozen plus times.

    Good luck on recovery!

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