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Iv been molested at 6 , since then I found guys to be gross , it took me a while to get over those feelings , now im a grown up but I still find penis gross n scary , I hate penetration , I think I ll never be able to hav a guy
I want a partner tho
If you've been molested when you were a child it's normal you're going to be grossed out or have difficulties with sex and intimacy. That should never have happened to you and it's completely wrong and unfair that someone did that to you.
A few years ago I was in a loving relationship with a partner who suffered sexual abuse as a child. It really screwed up our sex life and our intimacy. She could never truly feel at ease or trust a man. She never sought professional help and I think she should have. You still have a chance to seek help for that. I hope you do. Good luck.
Past trauma is a pain. You should consult a professional about it. You were young and had no control of such matters, the person who molested you deserves a buttload of karma but you have to conquer your fear else it's going to haunt you for the rest of your life. I wish you well. Know that there are others who are on the same boat and draw bravery from that.
This is precisely why I hate sexual predators! I don't believe people who molest, assault and rape should ever be shown any leniency. What they need is to be prosecuted to the fullest of the law!
I'm so sorry this happened to you! You have nothing of which to be ashamed, it's the person who harmed you who should be ashamed! I'd be happy to castrate your abuser myself if I could... I really would!
Harder punishment is actually the stupidest approach to things like that. You will have to understand that everything in this universe follows the law of cause and effect, meaning that there is a reason people behave the way they do. If anything those people need professional help instead of hard punishment that does nothing in favor of the offenders or victims.
Its totally fine to be grossed out by penis. And you dont have to do penetration if you dont like it. I have been with a lot of girls and never had penetration sex with them. The penis doesnt have to be the focus, too. I even had sex with girls with my pants still an.
You just need to find a guy who isnt that focused on his penis.
I once knew a girl who was grossed out by penises, too. We had a lot of sex, but without penetraiton and without penis. After some weeks, she started to slowly touch my penis. there has never been penetration or even ejaculation. But she wasnt that grossed out anymore, because my penis wasnt a danger to her, and it wasnt forcing her to do anything, and it didnt wanted to cum or penetrate her.