What you find ugly and repulsive, others may find the pinnacle of beauty and/or sexually attractive. You may feel something that com-pulses you to react in a negative or violent manner towards that person. that I think is normal. However, that does not give you the right to act on that feeling. We are not dogs. We can chose our actions despite our compulsions. Chose to be kind, the personal benefits to you are enormous. Also, you can chose to not evaluate every person you meet. That is maturity. In the office I don't respond to the 20 something co-worker when she shows up each morning. Why, because we are not at work to pick each other up. If I go to the bar to hook up i evaluate the people around me. If i run across someone who I evaluate to be ugly, I remain respectful. I may smile if engaged in conversation but i finish it and move on. If that person were injured i would help them because I have those skills. Not because they are beautiful on my scale of beauty.
IIN to be repulsed by ugly people?
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What you find ugly and repulsive, others may find the pinnacle of beauty and/or sexually attractive. You may feel something that com-pulses you to react in a negative or violent manner towards that person. that I think is normal. However, that does not give you the right to act on that feeling. We are not dogs. We can chose our actions despite our compulsions. Chose to be kind, the personal benefits to you are enormous. Also, you can chose to not evaluate every person you meet. That is maturity. In the office I don't respond to the 20 something co-worker when she shows up each morning. Why, because we are not at work to pick each other up. If I go to the bar to hook up i evaluate the people around me. If i run across someone who I evaluate to be ugly, I remain respectful. I may smile if engaged in conversation but i finish it and move on. If that person were injured i would help them because I have those skills. Not because they are beautiful on my scale of beauty.