Is it normal to be race shamed because I want white babies

I was a maid of honor in my best friends wedding. She is Jewish and her family often talked aboit how great it was that she (the bride) married a Jewish man. I'm an American of Swedish descent but everyone says i am racist because I am attracted to and want to marry a white man and have white babies. My latin friend says I am racist because white people are supremacists, but she has latin children with a Latin man. I don't think like that I love everyone. I just am personally attracted to white men. I am such the opposite of racist. I am 1st generation American and I hate Trump. Why am I labeled a racist because I want white babies? It makes no sense. I never did anything wrong to anyone.

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  • Why does it matter that they're white?

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  • Just do what the fuck you want and if people don't like it, they're not real friends.

    As long as you're not raising your kids thinking they're superior, there's nothing wrong with wanting kids that look like you as a personal preference.

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  • What does the religion of your friend have to do with anything?

    If your Latin friend is calling you a racist and a supremacists then she is not your friend.

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    • Well Jewish is both a religion and an ethnicity. My point was her parents were so proud that she married another Jewish person. My point is when i ssy that I am labeled as a racist just because i am a Swedish American. A white American? I never have did or said anything racist that I can think of?

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      • Depending on how strict they are Jewish people tend to be extremely racist about marrying outside the community.

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      • i think you are flattering yourself a bit much, nobody said you had to do anything but you make this a big deal because you are a fucking bitch who just wants to play victim. Date and screw whoever you want, what you were saying was only considered racist because nobody things that vainly. Is it as racist as burning a cross and going to a klan rally. no, but its still unnecessarily uncomfortable to discuss.

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      • Where you born here?

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    • Absolutely!

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  • There is absolutely nothing wrong with how you think. Personally, I'm the same way.

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  • It is fine to be attracted to white guys, people have different preferences. What is weird is specifying that part of your attraction is that you want white babies.

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    • Why?

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      • Because it implies that you think white babies and white families are better, and sounds slightly eugenicist. It's fine that the guys you are sexually attracted to tend to be white, it's not fine to shut non white guys out because it conflicts with your desire for lily white children.

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  • Don't let people impose White Guilt on you, it's bullshit. You're attracted to who you are attracted to, there's nothing wrong with that.

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  • People forget what racism actually is. It means to treat people of other races differently and discriminate against them. Not wanting to date outside of your race does not even slightly make you racist - you don't owe any man of any race a damn thing.

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  • how is babby formed? how girl get pragnent?

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  • Are you a white Swedish rabbit?

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  • White people are not supremacists, they're simply people doing everyday life just like anyone else.

    Don't buy into the feminist liberal propaganda.

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  • Depends. If you don't date non-white because you don't like non-whites then that's a little racist. But if you keep to your race simply because you're more attracted to white men then that's just a preference.

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  • These people who call you racist are bigoted douchebags themselves. Don't pay attention to them, because they are ignorant racists themselves; they're not your friends.

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  • That's stupid. I'm black and I married a black guy soooooooooo yeah I'm not racist 😱

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  • WTF!!? you hate trump! F*ck you! other than that, you obsess too much about this, your not gonna end up happy long term if all you care about is how your babies look, you will end up a tired sad old maid, even if you really do end up having kids you will know that they were simply just your props. If your gonna marry someone do it for their dependability and loyalty not their race. And i'm apparent a "racist" trump support you libtard idiot.

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    • I'm not obsessing, just observing and commenting and curious what other people think. My politics makes me a social libertarian. I think you are obsessed with anyone criticising the American president. That is very unamerican.

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      • typical liberal, full of herself progressive bitch who wants her perfect life. You want a career, a beautiful beta husband with a good ass and no dreams and a designer baby. You could give a rats ass about everyday americans because you consider yourself white collar upper middle class. you are a walking streo typical liberal empowered fembot.

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